I am a Cancer Moon. I am very connected to my heart. In a long term relationship, the heart is everything. Attraction can last for a short time, but it will eventually depart. Looks, even such as those of a bikini model, do not last. In time, if the bikini model has an ugly soul or you and she do not have a soulful relationship, it will not last or last happily. Hence, when looking at synastry charts, we must look at soul, soul, soul. That is what this article is about.
Aspects for Soul
Moon Trine or Sextile Moon
This is THE Cadillac aspect. Moon trine( or sextile) Moon is rather rare. People feel it when they encounter it. It feels very, very much like home. People laugh at the same jokes and, almost, have their own private world. If you find this in a marriage partner, you are truly blessed.
Moon Trine or Sextile Mercury
If there is an aspect which can substitute for Moon trine Moon, it would be Moon/Mercury. Mercury is the mind. The Moon is the heart. If one’s heart can communicate with the mind of the other, there can be true soul. I have the sextile with someone and I know that this is true. We can fight, but we, always, bond again and stronger.
The asteroids can be very strong when they conjunct personal parts of the chart of the other person. Psyche is soul The conjunction must be very close( not more than 3 degrees). Other aspects need to have a smaller orb(1-2) degrees.. I kind of think that an asteroid can give soul, but will not overcome poorly aspected Moons. I get this question a lot. I don’t think any asteroid can really “make up” for poorly aspected Moons.
Ceres is the unconditional love of a mother for her child. It is very powerful. If the Ceres of one person aspects personal part of the chart of the other, the Ceres person will bring unconditional love to the other person. By personal parts of the chart, I mean the angles(Ascendant, IC, Descendant and MC), the Moon, Sun, Mercury, Mars and Venus.
Valentine is one of the best forms of love. Valentine would die for his beloved.
Juno is loyal devotion. Juno embodies the marriage vows.
Vesta is unselfish giving of oneself to another