When I write articles like this I get hate mail. My favorite story *cough* is about Aunt Mildred and Uncle Hugh who lived together for thirty years and had this aspect. Did you live in their bedroom? Alas, such is life and such is denial. I like to face life square on. Hence, I will tell you the synastry aspects that I think make for unhappiness and why, of course.
1. Moon Square Moon
I have written about this before. One girl was classic for someone who had a personal vendetta toward me due to my stand on Moon square Moon. She and her boyfriend had this aspect. I do not change my mind based on harassment,as you know. She moved in with the boyfriend and he tried to choke her. Well, not all Moon square Moon relationships play out like this, but there is a basic lack of heart understanding. Any relationship is all about hearts. So, watch your Moon in all relationships.
2. Nessus Conjunct the Sun
This aspect can make for heated passion. Henry and Meghan have a strong Nessus synastry. I do not see how this relationship can last. I am putting that out there and you can see if I am right. Nessus makes for heat galore and swinging from the chandeliers, but when it is over, all of this passion can turn cold, at best, and very, very nasty, at worst. I have seen people torch the cars of their once Nessus love. To me, if I see a strong Nessus synastry, I would run—period end.
3.Nessus Conjunct the North Node
The North Node tells us about themes in the relationship. You do not want a Nessus theme. Nessus is the asteroid of abuse.
4. Nessus Conjunct the North Node
The North Node is the theme of one’s life. If a person BRINGS a planet or asteroid to the North Node person, the planet or asteroid becomes a theme of the relationship.Hence, please look carefully at that which conjuncts the North Node in synastry. I have an article on the North Node in Synastry. I will link it at the end.
5.Sado Conjunct the North Node
Someone in my family has this with me. This person was very sadistic to me. It hurt horribly. Since it was a relative, I had little choice in the matter However, if this were a current
relationship, I would run as far as I could. In the case of Nessus and Sado, I do not care how nice the person appears. The charts WILL play out. I should have this tattooed on my chest, along with “What are the orbs?”
6. Nessus Conjunct the Moon
The Moon is the heart. I cannot say this enough. Any intimate relationship is a sharing of hearts. Hence, if you see a “bad” asteroid conjunct your Moon, run. That is my advice. Many times, these bad asteroids make for passion, so if you can’t run, at least, don’t get married.
7. Sado Conjunct the Moon
As I said, I watch Nessus and Sado like a hawk. That which conjuncts the Moon affects the heart. That which conjuncts the North Node becomes a life theme.Sado is sadism.
8.Mars Conjunct the Moon
This feels so icky that I don’t think a relationship would progress very far. The Mars person, usually, feels compelled to attack the Moon person. I was the Moon with a female. I would not call her a friend,but I did try to be nice to her at first. After she attacked me for the umpteenth time, I attacked her back and she left me alone.
9. Mars Square Mars
This seems to give powerful attraction at first. This could be called a “sexy fighting” aspect. However, with time, this is more of a “fighting/fighting aspect i.e let’s tear each other’s necks off. I do not see a relationship going the distance with this aspect. I think people would kill each other first.
10.Chiron Conjunct the North Node
I was in a relationship which lasted a long time and we had this aspect. The theme of the relationship was pain.I did not know astrology at the time. Now, I would avoid a relationship with ANY bad asteroid or planet conjunct the North Node. Read my chest—–the chart will play out.
Here is the link to my article—The North Node in Synastry.