I got this question from one of my favorite clients Actually, all of my clients are my favorite clients because if we do not have a simpatico, I will not do your chart. So, every chart I do is a heavenly experience. Onto the subject. The North Node is very, very important in a relationship. In fact, if I saw a very bad conjunction to the North Node, I would not enter into the relationship at all. An example of a bad conjunction would be Nessus conjunct the North Node. Nessus is the asteroid of abuse. I cannot cover all of the wonderful aspects to the North Node in one article, but I will make a start. I think my client wanted me to put them in order, but I really cannot. It would be like putting your favorite books in order. Each one is different. I love “The Bell Jar” by Sylvia Plath and I love “The Stand” by Stephen King. I could not pick a favorite because they are so very different in their substance and essence.
The BEST Aspects To Have Conjunct the North Node in Synastry
1. Moon Conjunct the NN
The Moon is one’s heart. To have a relationship in which one’s heart is at the center is about the best thing there is. The Moon person brings his heart to the relationship, but, of course, this is excellent for both people.
2.Venus Conjunct the NN
Venus brings pure love to the relationship. The Venus person brings an unconditional love for the NN person.
3. Valentine Conjunct the NN
Valentine is, perhaps, the most unselfish of loves. It is the kind of love in which one would die for the beloved.
4.Vesta Conjunct the NN
Vesta is unselfish service to another person with little though for oneself.
5.Ceres Conjunct the NN
Ceres is the love of a mother for her child. Ceres would go to the ends of the earth to help her child.
6. Juno Conjunct the NN
Juno embodies the traits of a loyal wife—devotion, loyalty, fidelity and enduring love.
7.Lust Conjunct the NN
This is an excellent aspect for a relationship because it helps to keep the attraction lasting.
8.Psyche Conjunct the NN
Psyche is a deep soul understanding.
9.Eros Conjunct the NN
Eros is erotic love. Eros would help to keep the attraction in the relationship.
10. Aphrodite Conjunct the NN
Aphrodite would confer pure love as a theme of the relationship.