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Unrequited Love in the Charts

girl black low back dressLesley had another wonderful topic.  Unrequited love has certain markers in the charts. An Astrologer can look at a synastry chart and tell you what each person is feeling. This is one of the questions I get most often. To see what one person feels, the Astrologer should focus on his moon, first and foremost. One’s Moon is one’s heart. One’s Moon is one’s inner child. Falling in love is child to child. Hence, falling in love is Moon to Moon. I am talking about soul here, the kind one has with one’s best friend. I am not talking about passion. That is other aspects, which I will address shortly.

Back to the Moons. Without Moon connections, the relationship will have no soul. Hence, if a client brings me a chart with one person’s moon unaspected to the other person, I see no future for the relationship.By unaspected, I mean that the Moon of one person makes no aspects to the chart of the other person. In these cases, neither person seems to understand the other. I am sure you can imagine how this would feel in a marriage.

I, always, watch the charts in everything I do. If I have a relationship, any relationship,  I see how the charts play out. If you have ever found yourself at a cocktail party, stuck in the corner with someone who does not understand you, that is how it would feel with an Unaspected Moon in synastry.

The Unaspected Sun in synastry works the same way.  With the Unaspected Sun, it has a different slant. In this case, the two do not understand the motives of one another, as opposed to the hearts of each other, as is the case with the Moons.

While we are talking about Unaspected Planets in synastry, we may as well examine  some of the others. An Unaspected Venus in synastry has a different slant. In this case, the partner will have different tastes. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. With the Unaspected Venus, the sensibilities would be similar to Oscar and Felix in the Odd Couple. Oscar would throw his napkin behind the sofa and Felix would come back with a dustpan. It was forever thus and that is what happens with the Unaspected Venus in synastry.

With the Unaspected Mercury in synastry, one would not resonate with the communication style of the other. I think of some humor I find hilarious while the other person is deadpan. That would be an example of the Unaspected Mercury in synastry.

With the Unaspected Mars in synastry, the drives would be different. One’s drives encompass a wide range from passion to career goals. In this case, there would not be an understanding of what made the other person “tick”

So, when you are doing your own synastries, check for any planet of one person which makes no aspects to the chart of the other and you will have a major understanding of the relationship in one fell swoop.


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3 thoughts on “Unrequited Love in the Charts

  1. amiannLesley

    Hi Ami, thanks for writing about my suggestions. I knew Pluto would have to be involved, but I never thought of synastry. But it makes sense, as a stalker would only stalk someone that he/she felt such a strong attraction to. And Scorpio, yes, strong Scorpio in a chart always has a wee bit of intense darkness around it. Another planet I thought of was Neptune, as it can cause some illusion as to what someone is feeling towards another. BTW, my Venus in in the 8th in Taurus. I do fall HARD. Not often, but HARD! (LOL)

    1. amiannLesley

      Right comments. Wrong article.

      AS for the unrequited love. The person feeling the attraction would have to have some aspect causing the feelings (perhaps Neptune?) that the other person doesn.t have. There would almost have to be something missing from one chart causing a lack of interest. Or could be that men and women attract on different levels: men with the physical, women with the heart. It is a tough lesson either way. BTW, I love the picture you chose for this article. Many Thanks,

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