I had quite a shock when I found that my mother’s Moon was conjunct the Asteroid Sado—-exact. It kind of made me freeze for a few weeks. I have unfrozen enough to talk about it. I did not talk to my mother and father for a year. The incident that made me stop was not a big one. It was a little one but it was like the marriage that breaks up because the guy does not squeeze the tooth paste from the bottom.At that moment, the relationship became clear and I knew that if I did not get away, I would never extricate myself. I have since reconciled but now I have more information. One of those pieces of info is her Sado conjunct her Libra Moon.
I call things straight out. I think truth is love and truth is health. I grew up in a house of lies, so I treasure truth as a dying man in the desert treasures water. Hence, I cannot mitigate the influence of the Asteroid Sado. It is a sadist. This would be true for a conjunction with the Moon, more than any other planet. The Moon is one’s deepest heart. What touches it, resonates very deeply with the person. If one is in a relationship with the native, it will resonate deeply with one, for better or worse.
With the Asteroid Sado, it is for the worst. You may think I am negative for saying this but what good does being in a relationship with a sadist do? At most, it would throw one into a depression or mental/emotional illness and one would hit bottom and find God. That sounds like what happened to me 😀
At any rate, it is important not to mitigate the bad asteroids. In this politically correct society, one cannot call a spade a spade. One gets great criticism if one does. However, I think the root of emotional and mental illness is the refusal to face simple truths. They are not simple, if one will not face them. They grow to be behemoths and eat you up. That is why I am very honest in everything I do on my website and with my charts and my readings. I tell people, right out, what I feel and think. The human spirit seems to appreciate honesty. I can feel people breathe a sigh of relief that I am willing to put myself on the line. They, in turn, feel free to be honest.
Back to the subject at hand. Yes, I feel there are bad asteroids just as I feel there are bad things in life. In this politically correct society, the good is morphed into the bad and vice versa. However, the Bible is clear about good and bad and right and wrong. Deep in people’s spirits, they know this. That is why people respond to honesty. That is why people respond to love. Love is the language of the heart for all people
.I digressed again. The Asteroid Sado is sadism. Does that mean that this native is bad? NO. However, it means that this native will be sadistic until he can find God and truly merge the spiritual with the material. Until then, if you are in his sphere, he will be sadistic to you. A leopard cannot change it’s spots, nor a zebra it’s stripes. Such is the case with the charts, for better or worse, in my opinion.
There are people that don’t like to face the truth. For some it can be a slap in the face needed to wake someone up (I have one in mind right now). It’s strange that I woke up with that thought this morning. I was angry.(LOL)
LOL xxx
Hi Ami,
A friend of mine has got Sado, Destin and Deprez conjunct his Moon in the 10th house. They are conjunct my Uranus and my name asteroid in the 1st house in synastry. What does this mean, how will this play out? Can you explain this to me?
Thanks, I love your insights!
Thanks, Linda!! I love that you are here> Well,he has a lot to deal with and I bet he would be a handful in a relationship. He may have depression and be sadistic lol. You will shake him up, to the core and it is fated for that to happen. You will break his personality structures, which we all have built up from childhood, such as defense mechanisms etc. You will radically change him and it is fated, as I said, seen from the name asteroid. Now, tell me about it 😀
Thank you for your thoughts Ami!
The reason why I made contact with him was that I sensed his depression (I am a little bit psychic,, I think) I don’t know why, but I had the urge to help him and to cheer him up, to let him see the other side of the situation, to break out and to hold live in your own hands, to try different things, etc. etc. He turned out to be very limited in his approach of life (Saturn conjunct Sun) URGGH. But anyway, I can understand the influence of Deprez and Destin.now, in connection with me and Uranus.
But how about Sado? For that I am not sure. He somethimes leaves me alone for a couple of weeks ignoring me. Apparently he doesn’t feel safe with me. But that makes me feel depressed, frustrated and very very sad. When I asked him about this, he doesn’t know what I am talking about. Is this the Sado influence? Btw: Deprez is bringing me depression too, isn’t it?
Grtz Linda
No, Linda dear, Sado is sadism. You will know it when you see it lol
Dear Ami,
I hope I will never see it.. Maybe his Venus conjunct my NN will help :-)?
with love
Linda
I’m scared. Really scared.
I just realized it is conjuct my venus.
My urano also conjuct my venus and lilith (MC). 🙁
sado, urano and Venus in scorpio… 🙁
How close is everything, Lu. List the orbs, please.
my venus conjuct my uranus (6a)
my venus conjuct MC (8s)
my lilith conjuct my MC (1a)
my urano conjuct MC (2s)
I’ve just 2 aspects of sado:
my venus conjuct sado (0s)
sado square mars (1a)
Sado sq Mars may make it like you feel sadistic but can’t express it, so it stays locked away inside but it eats at you. Is this true?
sado – 9th 19°48’12 (scorpio)
Venus – 9th 20°36’38 (scorpio)
Uranus – 9th 27°24’42 (scorpio)
Lilith – 10th 0°45’15 (sag)
Other planets and asteroids in the 9th house:
Moon – 6°37’15 (scorpio) conjuct mercury (scorpio) – 2°11’57
juno (scorpio) 13° 2’57
vesta (libra) 28°30′ 6
Sado conj venus. The rest are too wide. Do you feel sadistic to those with whom you have romantic relationships or just love, in general lol
Sado conj venus. The rest are too wide. Do you feel sadistic to those with whom you have romantic relationships or just love, in general lol
Sado conj venus. The rest are too wide. Do you feel sadistic to those with whom you have romantic relationships or just love, in general lol
Never felt nothing about want be sadistic… Reason I get shocked to see that in my birth chart.
I have a hard time with my moon and venus in scorpio… Also the lilith in MC… It makes me too intense (physically/emotionally) and sometimes I need watch out to control such intense energy trying dont be agressive (verbally) to the people, when I’m too much “loaded”, but never physically. I have a great struggle to make me in balance, as I need to be for my libra sun.
About love, I think that feeling is just about love, ok… Too intense, by the bad aspects from moon and venus, also suspicious, easy to get upset, in the up of the passion, but I don’t think there is a sadistic feeling through this.
When I’m in love, mainly, it’s easier people hurt me, because I’m too naive sometimes, I don’t know if it is my dejanira conjunct neptune (1a) and it’s make me let me be abused by people without know or understand it when happens.
I think if sado play out, should be in sexual aspect, maybe, but it don’t attract me so much, to be honest. So… I dont know yet.
Aww Deja conj Neptune. You may have a hard time seeing when you are being victimized
I think so. Sometimes, i take long time to see people clearly, and seems I attract that kind of situation in life.