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Asteroid Picks—Pholus

milk girlPholus explodes what it touches. Hence, one would see the planet or asteroid Pholus explodes, not Pholus per se. I have taken special note of Pholus because I have seen him at work in my own chart. I have Pholus conjunct Chiron, exact. If you know me, you know I explode pain. Am I proud of it? Not really? Is it that bad? Not really.

Pholus is kind of a strange bird because he explodes things, so people can heal. Sometimes, he just explodes things. One must be fair and say that. However, when something explodes, one can face it and heal it.

With Pholus conjunct Chiron, I will explode pain. This helps me deal with it, obviously. However, it allows others to deal with their own pain. Most people will not share their pain. I, probably, would not either, if Pholus did not conjunct the planet of pain. Pholus is kind of like diaherria, not to be gross. However, Pholus will do what Pholus wants to do. One goes along for the ride. So, for a person with Pholus conjunct Chiron, the pressure cooker lid will be left off Chiron.

Now, Pholus can be conjunct many things in the natal chart. I will share some I have seen. Pholus conjunct Ceres is pure magic. Ceres is unconditional love. I know someone with this and he explodes a kind of unconditional love. It is very warm.

Pholus conjunct the Sun may have poor impulse control. The native may explode before he thinks. This is not something one would choose. However, knowing about it should help.

I have seen Pholus in synastry. It made me laugh. I was kind of reluctant to ask the girl about it. There was Pholus conjunct the North Node, double whammy. A Double Whammy is an aspect that is repeated twice in synastry.

I asked the girl if the relationship felt explosive and out of control. She said yes.

If I see a person exploding something, whatever it may be, good or bad, I would think P-H-O-L-U-S with a capital P. Pholus’ number is 5145.

 

124 thoughts on “Asteroid Picks—Pholus

  1. amiannmarion

    Hi Ami,

    Now yes (at age 39) very much so. But when i was younger i didnt want marriage. My pholus and Juno are both retrograde. So perhaps something to pick up there with progressions.

    BTW Interesting that i made a baby with a man (on impulse) under explosive chaotic circumstances without even getting married to him. His pholus was exactly conjunct my Ceres. That is not all. The baby’s (my Son) Pholus is exactly conjunct my NN. Since he was born my life has been nothing but CHAOTIC.

      1. amiannferryleaf

        This is with my best (platonic) friend of over 20 years. 🙂 The one I made mention of before, with whom my major planets & all mostly seem to make “a tangle of squares and oppositions”! lol

        I wrote that I couldn’t figure out based on our main synastry aspects why we were even friends! xD LOL

        Well, this may be an interesting little exception to that. Who knows?

        Interestingly, I just found a post by iqhunk on Lindaland where he wrote:

        I have Valentine conjunct True Node double whammy with the love of my life. We have so many negative synastry aspects but this one placement seems to be erasing their effect.

        …and I find that possibly relevant to me & my best friend’s situation.

        1. amiannferryleaf

          Also, I *should* add that, although we’ve been best platonic friends for such a very long time, I am a bi girl and I did start out pretty darn smitten with her, as well. I felt I should add this just in case anyone thought this couldn’t or wouldn’t be a romantic aspect.

          And indeed, our friendship has “romantic” qualities…but now more in the platonic sense of the word “romantic.” (Think, “epic” instead of “romance,” I guess, now.) I think we pretty much consider ourselves friend soul-mates.

  2. amiannamiann Post author

    Oh My Goodness B

    These pictures are amazing. I am excited to write articles when I get new pictures. You are right, I was recycling.

    Anytime you see ones you think I would like, please pass them along!

    This deserves a big thank you and I should let you win at Scrabble :/

  3. amiannMarble

    I have Pholus 17°05′, Amor 15°35′, Juno 13°35′ and my current hometown’s name asteroid 16°31′ in Leo. ^^ Also Chiron is at 20°46′ Leo, widely conjunct Pholus..

  4. amiannIo_juno_spirit

    Someone really crazy and powerful has Pholus conjunct my MC. It is madness for me to be around this person with Pholus-Jupiter in my MC!

    1. amiannIo_juno_spirit

      It is madness, and I achieved a lot around her.

      In addition, she also has asteroid Nessus conjunct my ASC (me with Nessus/NN conjunct in natal chart). I realized that I don’t want to confront her because I have many things to achieve through her, but the battles have been ridiculous and endless.

      1. amiannamiann Post author

        Yes, Nessus conj your ASC would make her really nasty to you and she prolly could not help herself. One girl has Nessus conj my Sun and I feel she can’t stand me even though I have been nothing but nice to her. The charts WILL play out. There is a time to run. That is wisdom, in my opinion, Lo

  5. amiannMimi

    I have pholus conjunct hebe, the asteroid of youth. And many people think I look like 13 when I’m actually 16. It’s embarrassing. :/

  6. amiannJamma

    I just noticed that on the April 15 lunar eclipse transiting Pholus will be at 24 Sag, adding his sextile/trine to the 25 Libra/Aries party — as if the situation weren’t explosive enough!
    This is personally significant because my natal MC (Spica/Arcturus) at 24 Libra sextiles Juno at 24 Sag …
    I’m widowed, so I don’t have an actual “marriage” to break up (btw, my experience is that natal Juno in Sag isn’t that keen on being legally wed) … However, a recent romance may be under the gun, as his MC/IC axis is nearly identical to mine …
    Plus, having ignored Pholus in synastry before, I decided to have a look … natally, his Pholus conjuncts my Pallas and my Pholus conjuncts his Eros …
    There are many more very tight-orb conjunctions in synastry:
    his Sun to my DSC
    our name asteroids
    his Saturn to my Mars
    his Pluto to my Psyche
    his Psyche to my Chiron
    his PofF to my Moon/Merc
    his ASC to my PofF
    his DSC/Merc/Venus to my Uranus
    his Vertex to my Saturn
    And don’t get me started on other aspects or midpoints!
    So I guess what I’m wondering is, will the eclipse entirely blow up this relationship … are we toast?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Welcome Jamma and great question. I am really not that well versed in eclipses and what they do to synastry. If you want to research it and come back with some ideas, I would love to talk about it!

  7. amiannDawnblue

    I’ve been following your stuff for a while now… Thanks for sharing your asteroid insights! Very timely!

    I’m compelled to comment finally because I just discovered…

    A CRAZY amount of pholus aspects with my relatively new partner *who is such a gung Ho committed cancer… even through the absolute MADNESS of this past week (our composite features several planets at 13 degrees in Cardinal signs…)*….

    pholus conjunct composite North node

    my pholus conjunct his IC

    his pholus conjunct his child, both of which conjunct my Eros, all of which is conjunct our composite IC.

    It almost feels too private to post! 😉

    Holy crazy.

    His Lie is on my MC. His Nessus in Leo squares my Scorpio Pluto but I feel like my Scorpio Pluto can win. We have some loving stuff like his Jupiter on my ascendant and nice Venus stuff and definite spiritual learning happening but…. Holy, this pholus explains a lot. I’ve been considering ending it because I’m afraid if it continues that I’ll never have any peace! Do you think that’s the case? Can we reach an energy plateau or will things keep exploding? seems like we’ll fall off the cliff as many times as we will reach the clouds.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Welcome Dawnblue!
      Your kind words made my day 😀
      I don’t think the Pholus effect will stop. Is there enough good to overcome it would be a better question imo

  8. amiannDawnblue

    I’m looking at my chart in relation to our composite and there is definitely some Saturn stuff on all sides to explain why this relationship hasn’t been blown out of the water by the near hel that’s been stirred up! Not just due to his QUADRUPLE cancer and my Pluto ruled mega Scorpio chart 😉

  9. amiannDawnblue

    Hey I didn’t see your comment before i posted my last one. so pleased that i was able to contribute to your site and your day! I think I will try to mitigate the pholus factor by taking lots of time out if and when I can to re group and find peace

  10. amiannDawnblue

    I’m starting to feel like Pholus is really Uranian. I missed your content as well, ami, somehow, when I posted my last comment.

    Well… Pholus in my chart is almost unaspected save for a sextile to my MC and… erk… Tight orb quincunx Pluto and 1 degree quincunx Mercury… And it’s in my 8th house in Gemini… so that perhaps doesn’t bode too well. my heart feels like it might explode at the slightest things right now!

    But I’ve noticed what is maybe a glitch in astro’s software when creating the aspect table, which seems to miss a lot of aspects between asteroids which are really obvious when looking at the chart itself so I could be missing something…

  11. amiannDawnblue

    But in an otherwise suspiciously empty 8th house Gemini there is Jupiter 10 degrees away and my vertex 5 degrees from Pholus. The person in question here has a pretty intense stellium in my 8th… I’m really comfortable(???) with 8th house matters given all the Scorpio action in my chart (Pluto, sun, ascendant, Mercury, vesta). Would you say that helps strengthen my Pholus factor?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Hard to say w/out the visuals of the charts. You can put them up and ask these few questions on the Comment section. If you want me to look more closely, Post them in my Forum and we can discuss them as long as you like. Put them in the Personal Readings section xx

  12. amiannVixenVirgo

    Hi, not sure if still applicable, but what do you mean exactly when you say Pholus conjunct Chiron, you explode pain?

    I’m curious as I have 2H CAN Pholus CJ my 2H LEO Chiron by <5 deg.
    Does over 5 deg not count as a conjunction as it is really 5 1/2 deg?
    I'm not sure If I explode pain?
    I've read Pholus can represent lightning fast transformation also, is this is true?
    Thanks, VV.

  13. amiannShawn W

    Amiann, My Pholus is conjunct a potential love interest on her Sun/moon midpoint, in my first house opposed my Sun/moon midpoint in my 7th house. Which is a connection I can’t find much on either. Less than 1 and less than 2 degree orbs respectively. Could this be something that opens both of us to a fuller expressions of our inner and outer self? Thanks , Shawn.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I am not sure, Shawn. I don’t use midpoints, so can’t say. Pholus explodes what it touches. It can help people see themselves and this can be good. However, for any synastry to work, it needs good Moons imo. Pholus is rather minor.

  14. amiannB R

    Hi Ami! My partner & I have Pholus/Valentine conjunct, double whammy in Draconic. The conjunction sets are tightly sextile each other. And the Valentines are tightly contra-parallel as well. In our tropical & Draconic composites, Pholus/Valentine/Sun are conjunct! This conjunction falls on 20 Pisces, the same degree as our Natal Eros/Psyche conjunction, my Part of Marriage, and our Sun/Sun midpoint. I was a little nervous to look up what Pholus would do to our Valentine, so I’m relieved to find out it’s positive.

  15. amiannGrace

    I have pholus conjunct my moon (moon 2 degrees Scorpio pholus 3 degrees Scorpio) too add on to it I also have Eros in 3 degrees Scorpio too and Arachne in 4 degrees Scorpio (also they are all in my 2nd house)…

    I have a very small idea of what it could mean (minus the Arachne, I don’t understand her fully) but I’m not sure how it would play out in my life because I mostly try to be unexpressive with my emotions…

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I will do the pholus/moon for you, Grace. You may just explode with your emotions and not be able to contain it. If this is not the case, then other factors, such as Saturn, for example, may be repressing it, in my opinion, my Friend.

  16. amiannBonnie

    How would Pholus opposite pluto work out?
    And conjunction of pholus, eris and angel? Opposite saturn?

    As for how you describe experience with pholus yes.. with one man i had in composite lilith conjunct his natal pholus pisces 19°.. i couldnt understand why he was so sex obsessed, buying all sorts of drugs to do so.. but got upset with me and accused me of all sorts..
    His natal dejanira was conjunct my lilith/ neptune/ GC

  17. amiannSteve

    Hi! I too have Pholus conjunct Chiron at 1°15′ orb. They are in Aquarius in my 10th house. What do you mean by “explodes pain”? Also, in the next 5 years Pluto is going to dance a conjunction on them for a while, followed by Saturn and then Jupiter. What might I expect?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Explodes pain means to let it go in some way—scream, write strongly about it, sing, do music, something in which your pain moves OUTWARD in a strong way

  18. amiannJM

    I did not know this. My former love’s Pholus is conjunct my Sun-Venus Cazimi,
    It was an explosive relationship that lasted 6 years;
    His Mars is on my 8th hs Moon, I believed THIS was responsible for my frequent explosions!
    But no it seems, this new insight adding yet another layer to our intercharts;
    I’ve regained my composure since, and experience much less bouts of bad temper;
    I miss him though, I miss his good nature, and the kisses lol

  19. amiannJB

    Sooo, I have my pholus conjunct someone’s mars by 1 degree. We also have mars conjunct anteros double whammy exact. Plus a whole weird web involving eros, venus, uranus, mars… his sun opp my moon 1 degree, his mars opp my venus 1 degree. He is married. We plan to meet in January (long distance friends). Is this dangerous to his marriage?? lol. We certainly get along in an unbelievably magical way.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I think you know the answer about the marriage, JB :/
      You would be a good candidate for my one question chart. I don’t push any of my readings. This is not my living, but my passion. However, i think you know what will happen when you meet(said with love! )

      1. amiannJB

        LOL! Well I have an idea what COULD happen, but my Neptune makes my imagination run away with me. Plus, they’re just asteroids so I wasn’t sure how strong it would be. We intend to do creative and healing work together, and I thought perhaps these aspects might be useful for that too. I will consider the one question chart. Thanks!

  20. amiannCaitlin

    Hi Ami, I was wondering what your thoughts are on Pholus opposite my Pisces moon? (1 degree) There isn’t much information on the opposition. Any thoughts would be helpful, Thank you 🙂

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Yes, you may explode emotionally and then pull back and maybe feel bad, but later do it again when things get to be such that you can’t hold in the emotions anymore,C.

  21. amiannBliss

    This description made me laugh lol. It’s very accurate. But yes Pholus is essentially giving food poisoning to whatever it touches hahah. Thank you for this

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      The Pholus person may pick at and annoy the Mars person and this may be something that may not feel very good but it is a small aspect in an entire chart, my Friend.

  22. amiannYeshe Drolma

    What about Pholus in transit? I am curious as it is approaching my natal Juno/Mars conjunction. I have definitely noticed when I have transits to natal Pholus or conjunctions via synastry (conjunct someone’s Eros- really hard to ignore) but I am only just now studying the effects of transiting Pholus and am not finding much… Looking back at the last time I had Pholus transiting anything Neptune was the natal planet involved and that particular time was the unfolding of my current spiritual path and healing career path. So, I’m a very much curious if anyone has experience with Mars especially with Juno involved.

  23. amiannAle

    Hi dear Amy!
    I have Lilith and phollus both in conjunction with my ascendant in the first house.
    I was born as a male, but it all leads me to a beautiful and sensual feminine world of great strength .. I am currently facing a sex change … what can you tell me about it? I appreciate your opinion very much thanks for your space

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Wow Ale. Well, could be talk a bit before you do? Are you open to Jesus? I know this may make you mad but I say it out of love. As to your question, Lilith is raw sexuality and Pholus explodes what it touches so it does make sense you would kind of come apart at the seams with this placement. I look forward to hearing from you. Love, Ami

  24. amiannAbigail

    I am a self-taught astrologer but I don’t often read synastry charts. What would you think of his pholus conjunct my DC, and my Pholus conjunct his DC? Thanks for anything you’ve got for me!

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Pholus conj the DC–He blows up the relationship somehow, maybe not end it but make some sort of explosion in some way, maybe in how you see a relationship or something like that.
      Oh, it is a DW. This is gonna be something. Please, let me know
      what happens. I have not seen this before Abigail and Welcome!

  25. amiannS

    Hello. I have Pholus conjunct Ceres in Aries in my 8th house. What could it mean? Also, the recent Jupiter-Pluto conjunction is squaring my Pholus in Aries. Any clues?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Pholus conj Ceres gives off wonderful unconditional love to people. They are a charming person.I don’t do too much with transits. Something is always happening and a person can get obsessed with all of it so I don’t look often at even my own chart on transits

  26. amiannDavid

    Ami Ann,

    How are you friend? I hope and trust you are well through all this SARS-CoV-2 aka CoViD CoronaVirus fiasco.

    Separate from my last paragraph…

    A dear friend who truly touches my heart and stirs my Libido since we met, we have certainly tried to be Platonic friends, and we both feel strong “Pulls” in almost a synergistic and hard to describe way.
    We met 9 years ago and both seriously considered marriage when life events shifted my own life and she married another man and we each are friendly (including her husband, Yet He is curious about his wife’s mystical connection with me).
    I read all the comments searching for my own question in others after searching ‘far and wide’!

    Here is my CORE question:
    In synastry what does
    Pholus conjunct Pholus (less than 0.4° orb) result with?

    My mystical romance/friendship’s is in Pisces ♓️ With Her Pholus at
    9° 43’ 30”r (the ‘r’ means reversed?)
    Mine/His:
    10° Pis 5’ 58”
    with mine includes:
    Frigga
    10° Pis 6’ 22” (nearly exact!)
    as part of my Synastry aspect, To Recap my question:
    Her Pholus (reversed?!) less than 0.4° Of my Pholus conjunct in Pisces
    Combined with my Frigga AS PART of conjunction!

    (So much good Content on your site, I hope this Adds a much sought question!)

    Could it mean that the relationship is Expanding? Or otherwise raises our consciousness?!? I am so curious and eager to know!

    (Ps: Does it matter that we were born less than 90 days apart?
    ++
    Pps: she + I also share quite a few other conjunctions due to our less than 3 month apart birth times)

    This CONJUNCTION to Pholus Especially POPPED out at me tonight, Especially because..

    It fascinated me tonight to discover how my parents (in Synastry!) also seemingly have a similar aspect with
    Pholus Conjunct Pholus less than 1° conjunct In 25° Capricorn ♑️

    Her:
    25° Cap 43’ 13”r
    His:
    26° Cap 27’ 52”
    (Birth times 8 months apart!)
    I wonder if You/anyone understands the Reversal factor?

    Thanks for your patience + Common curiosity!

    Warm Regards <3 <

    ~ D ~

      1. amiannDavid

        Amiann,

        Lovely to connect again.

        I have a question and humbly ask for your insights… in my Natal chart I realized I have Frigga conjunct Pholus and I still have yet to find any sort of explanation on how this would result in my life…?

        77 Frigga 10 degrees Pisces 6’ 22”

        Pholus 10 degrees Pisces 5’ 58”

        Effectively they are EXACT with only a 0 degree 0 minute 24 second difference; this is my core question: How might this show up in my life?

        (Bonus details)
        This pair are aspected with a… (less than 3° aspect)

        TRINE to
        Uranus in Scorpio (6 degrees 37’ 26” )
        SEXTILE
        114 Kassandra 7 degrees Capricorn 16’ 30” (Both Pholus + Frigga AND Uranus have sextile aspect)

        In the past I have had a few rare occurrences when my life was in danger or otherwise profoundly disrespected where I ‘exploded’ in a way I was shocked in how I ‘rose to the occasion’ in each circumstance.
        For example in June 2017 as I visited Southern California and while preparing/sorting my valuables for departure in a mall parking lot as several “homeless” people descended around my rental car. Fast forward >> 1 man tried to ‘car jack’ my rental car with everything in it, when (quick thinking) I stuck my left leg into the open front passenger side window, as the ‘intended car jacker’ proceeded to back up (full speed In reverse) ‘my’ rental car! Next moment he stopped to change gears to drive forward, I somehow managed to slip through the partially opened window to find myself sitting side-by-side NEXT to this “intended” ‘car-jacker’! It was like my “inner thug” leapt to my persona’s forefront as I barked at this ‘homeless street thug’ and he quickly exited, appearing frightened by Me! :O 😇🤯

        I do not intend a multiple part question, simply added additional details for further depth + analysis.

        Thank you my friend and wishing You a healthy and prosperous remainder of 2020!

        Warm regards,

        David

          1. amiannDavid

            Howdy Amiann!

            I acknowledge you said you typically do not use “Frigga”
            I am only asking you about this here on this thread because my own Pholus is nearly exact conjunction to this Frigga, plus a Synastry with a Beloved has my Pholus nearly exact conjunction to her’s (mainly because she was born 83 days or so before me.

            My hope is to better comprehend this dynamic due to unexpected circumstances related to my overall dynamic within my Synastry which I have developed a belief this Synastry with my slightly older Lady friend as a Twin Flame 🔥 romance which, has so far has a startling impactful experience for each of us.
            Effectively in Synastry my Frigga is less than 1 degree conjunct her Pholus.

            Frigga’s theme’s are Goddess of Love, marriage and destiny. Wife of Odin, Norse god of Asgard (I personally do not know what to make of this ‘Asgard’ and perceive it as mythology.

            I searched out to further

            Frigg was the wife of Odin the “All-father” in Norse mythology. She was the chief goddess of the Asgard/ god tribe. Frigg was the representative of love, marriage, protection, motherhood, etc. The story of her devotion and care for his child touched the souls of many. Check out some brief info about Frigg Norse Goddess.
            Frigga: Norse Goddess of Love and Marriage | Norse Mythology

            Frigga (also known as Frigg, The Beloved) was the goddess of love, marriage, and destiny. She was the wife of the powerful Norse god Odin, The All-Father. A sky goddess, responsible for weaving the clouds (and therefore for sunshine and rain and the fertility of the crops), she was also responsible for weaving the fates.
            Norse mythology – #Wikipedia
            Search domain: wikipedia
            /wiki/Norse_mythology…/wiki/Norse_mythology
            Norse mythology is the body of myths of the North Germanic peoples, stemming from Norse paganism (not my usual reading!) and continuing after the Christianization of Scandinavia, and into the Scandinavian folklore of the modern period. The northernmost extension of Germanic mythology, Norse mythology consists of tales of various deities, beings, and heroes derived from numerous sources.

            My friend Amiann: what are your thoughts on these details? Perhaps I may be a bit OCD about this… hahaha!

            Thanks for any thoughtful consideration(s)!

            With Gratitude,

            David

          2. amiannamiann Post author

            Honestly, my Friend, I look at this and get a headache. It is just too much for me to respond to on a message board but I appreciate your being so much and for sharing!

  27. amiannAprylDawn

    Transit Pholus is exactly conjunct my natal Lilith (and one degree separating from natal Juno)
    &
    my natal chart says I have an exact conjunction of Pholus and Part of Fortune…ive searched online for interpretation & found none

  28. amiannS

    Hi,

    Does is have to be conjunct what about other aspects?

    I have it conjunct NN but its 4deg
    semisquare moon 1*
    Square Neptune 1*
    Sextile POF 2*
    Square Juno 1*

  29. amiannElise

    Hi there!
    What is the meaning in synastry of Pholus (man) conjunct descendant and south node (female). Orb around 3. Will this aspect be equally felt by both since it is involving 7th house?

    Thanks in advance:-)

  30. amiannChian

    Omg, I just discovered Pholus in both of my parents chart are conjunct my Psyche. That explains a lot about my childhood and why every contact with them feels like an explosion of my core being. 😭

  31. amiannWakanda

    hey I have Leo Chiron Conjunct 10th house,Juno,Pholus and Hygeia what does that mean learning about my Leo Chiron and 10th house at 22 degrees hurts so much already and now checking juno out sounds so draining .. now with Pholus i dont understand exactly what your saying about exploding i didn’t quite catch your explanation of it and you please explain it in more detail ..and Hygeia i need to check out what that asteroid is if you could explain i would be extremely thankful aswell …. regardless im sending you blessings for putting out info on these astroids im currently doing readings and the astrologer im doing sessions with is very knowledgeable but also very messy and not very professional and hes in his second Saturn return turning 53-54 i think and hasn’t explained much of what i would like to know in detail its very annoying lol but anyway hope you have a blessed day and would be cool to get more information on this Conjunction of pain that im calling it now

      1. amiannLovell Wilson

        Not gonna lie getting sick feels like getting hit by a train .. I had covid in late June but beat it in less than 2 days with all the plane medicine i know but in the moment I felt like that day was my last but that always when I get sick covid was nothing if I have to be honest it’s bullshit … But yes getting heart broken has been the story of my life

        1. amiannamiann Post author

          We had covid and it was like a flu for about 2 weeks but then it was gone. I had a tight chest and this scared me a little but I was glad I did not smoke

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Hygeia is health. Pholus explodes what it touches in terms of breaking apart any existing structures, ideas etc. Juno is loyalty so Chiron conj these makes PAIN in these areas.

    1. amiannTheresa

      Besides his asteroids conjunct my moon listed above his Mars also conjuncts my dejanira and his nymph conjuncts my ascendant and his lust and astarte conjunct my vertex I think this is pretty much a no go. Especially since I saw my ceres and toro and Medea conjunct his South node. At least he doesn’t have my phone number and we’re just chatting online.
      My sun conjuncts his moon though. But I don’t think it’s enough to override the bad stuff. What do you think Ami?

      1. amiannamiann Post author

        So, Sun conj Moon can be best friends BUT there is not a deep emotional understanding here. People talk “at” people instead of deep understanding. Try to fins someone in your life with this. It is a weird aspect. You feel close to the person but there is little real understanding emotionally.

        1. amiannTheresa

          So this is in response to the guy I was talking to and we had a moon sun conjunction and you told me there would be little emotional understanding due to other aspects.
          I decided to meet him in person because we did have great conversations before.
          The date lasted almost three hours long we had great conversations and got along really well however I felt very little warmth between us and no sexual spark.
          My question is you said that one of the aspects was weird and there would be no emotional understanding between us so was wondering which one of those made you come to that conclusion.

          1. amiannamiann Post author

            Any bad thing that touches the moon you will feel really deeply so you don’t want pain or bad things such as these asteroids, T

  32. amiannTheresa

    Christabel has to do with letting bad things in. It’s about the story of a girl wandering at night who brings an evil spirit named Geraldine into her house; nobody will listen to Christabel when she tries to tell people about her suspicions.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Thank you T! Great explanation so he won’t believe you and you will feel like this girl. Plus, he will bring pain and you may become bitter due to it. Not good at all!

      1. amiannTheresa

        Thanks Amy I forgot to mention his Lucifer conjuncts my North Node at three degrees. 🤮 along with the asteroid Aeternitas (forever,long lasting) and his Chiron conjuncts my DSC and tyche..there won’t be any involvement with him.

  33. amiannAdrienne

    What of Pholus conjunct an angle in synastry? I’m not clear on what “explode” means exactly..
    With guy I’m seeing, his Pholus is conjunct my IC in PIsces
    Thanks for all you do

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      In this case, he would make all your early childhood stuff start flowing out even if you did not want it to. Exploding—here is an example. If you get in a fight and you start losing it. Another example—Chiron conj Pholus. People let their pain come out like a huge rainstorm. Pholus is like a pus pimple. It bursts and all comes raining out. Sorry to be gross

  34. amiannAdrienne

    Hahaha thank you

    I wondered if it could mean pus pimpling my home or home life lol too?

    I asked elsewhere about other interesting points in our synastry, too, like his south node conjunct my vertex and nessus and lilith, all of that square my nodes.. also his sado conjunct my juno.. it seems you are the only person who posts on the internet about most of the asteroids *))

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      His SN conj your vertex. He seems like family to you—very comfortable.Anything square nodes make the person who does the square thwart the NN person and his life purpose.Thanks for your kind words. If you ask me about aspects, please list a few in an easy way to understand and it will be a lot easier for me. Thanks so much! xoxoxo

  35. amiannAdrienne

    Thank you 🙂

    What if it’s our Nodes that are all squared, exactly? His North and South Nodes square mine.

    Also, his Sado is conjunct my Juno.

    Thank you

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Squared nodes may make the relationship seems stuck because people are not happy if they feel thwarted from this life purpose and squared nodes does this

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