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An Easy Guide to Venus in Synastry

Someone asked me how the Moon, Venus and Uranus acted in synastry. I assume that other people have the same question, so I will try to tackle it here. I think I am going to use the conjunction and the easy/positive aspects for this article. These are the trine and sextile. I could do another article using the hard aspects–the square and opposition. I like to make my articles kind of bite size. That way people can snack on them. The best learning is when it is easy and fun. If you like to learn this way, thank my Ninth House Gemini stellium of the Sun, Mercury, Venus and the South Node. Onto the article.

1 Venus/Moon

Venus/Moon is a warm, gentle and loving interaction. I don’t mean to give an absurd example, but it would be how one loves one’s dog. My dog is so adorable that I could pat her for hours. I rub behind her ears and she makes cooing noises. I pat her stomach and she looks like she smiles. I could eat her up: she is so beautiful to me. This would describe Venus/Moon, as I see it. Venus/Moon is not sexual, per se. It is more of pure love.

2. Venus/Uranus

This would be more sexual in that it is kind of love at first sight.You see the person and there is a ZING. A lightning bolt hit each person. If the level of soul is not in the chart, this relationship will not last on Venus/Uranus alone.


This is said to be a marriage aspect. It is similar to Venus/Moon, but not as MUCH of a warm fuzzy. It may be more of “deeper regard” love, if you understand what I mean. It would be more of thinking very highly of your partner, rather than wanting to eat him up :/


This relationship may have a very early and intense bonding. You may feel as if you finally found someone who understands you deeply. The trine and sextile may not be as unstable as the conjunction. The conjunction seems to be such an intense bonding that is scares one person away. That has been my experience with Chiron in conjunction with personal planets.

5. Venus/Pluto

This is a wonderful aspect: the stuff of romance novels. This is deep love and deep passion. You will know it if you have experienced it once. You can feel it when you meet it again. In a relationship, this one aspect alone will not keep you connected. You still need Moon connections, but this aspect is very romantic.


This is similar to Venus/Uranus in that both people are hit with a lightning bolt. This aspect is not quite as intense as Venus/Uranus, which takes your breath away. You can still breath with this one, although your breathing may be shallow.


This is a mixed bag. The conjunction is not, usually, a good thing. There can be deception on both sides. Neither person may see the TRUE nature of the other. When the blinders come off( and they, always, do) there can be great rifts Venus trine and sextile Neptune is, likely, a good thing. Each can see the other through an optimistic, rosy glow.

8. Venus/Saturn

This is, also, a mixed bag. Venus conjunct Saturn may result in the Saturn person”riding the behind” of the Venus person. The Saturn person may be critical of the appearance and/or tastes of the Venus person. With the trine and sextile, there may be a nice sense of bonding and a glue that keeps the relationship together.

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10 thoughts on “An Easy Guide to Venus in Synastry

  1. amiannJelena

    Hello, dear Ami! I would like to thank you for a wonderful article, like always. It is, honestly, a delight to read how you make astrology related things understandable even to me, a rookie. lol
    I have a synastry conjunction between my Venus and this guy’s Sun and retrograde Mercury. I have a natal Venus-Mars conjunction, so my Mars conjuncts these things, as well.

    I would REALLY like to get in contact with you, since you are by far the most competent and eloquent psychic, I can tell. I have been writing mails to you, but you didn’t respond. I would like to get a synastry reading, so that I will know weather it is good to be with this guy, or not.

    I am looking forward to your reply, so please tell me, where can I give you the necessary information (our birth dates, time of our birth and place of our birth).

    Thank you,

      1. amiannJelena

        Thanks for your warm welcome. I am glad to be a part of this amazing journey, myself. I have written you a mail and I can’t wait for you to reply. Thanks.

  2. amiannLaura

    Dear Ami, in your experience with Sun/Venus and Mars/Venus aspects, is it better/stronger when the Venus person is male or female?

    I used to know this guy.. His Venus sextile my Sun and Mars, my Venus sextile his Mars and conjunct his Sun. His Mars conjunct my Black Moon. Well, there were many other aspects, too. The attraction was STRONG, we felt comfortable with each other. And looked great together, not that it mattered. Not sure what was the problem (probably Sun conjunct Venus in Aquarius, his freedom-loving Mars in Sagittarius and mine in Taurus, slow and indecisive, lol). I still get goosebumps when I think about him and wonder if I ever get a chance to see him again.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      The Venus should be the female and the Mars the male.Well, really wild desire is usually Nessus/Dejanira. You sound like there is more going on than Venus, which is somewhat vanilla.

  3. amiannMay

    I have all these aspects with someone i love deeply .. some are minors & some are major within 2 degrees..
    Venus Conjunct Pluto ( Pluto Inconjunct Venus)
    Venus Conjunct Jupiter
    Venus Trine Sun
    Venus Trine Mars ( double whammy)
    Venus Inconjuct Chiron
    Venus Quantile Moon
    Venus Semisquare Saturn
    Venus Trine Uranus (6 degree wide)

  4. amiannVassiliki

    Hello Ami, thank you for your great articles in general, i would just like to make a comment on the power of mars /venus compared to that of venus/uranus. To my experience mars/venus is much more poweful than uranus/venus cause its more sexual/eroric. The uranus/venus of course is more electric and intense probably but not in an erotic way. Its just tension that very easily can create distances between the couple.

    Thank you

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