I always watch my relationships. I know the charts of the people in my life. If I have a problem with a person(yes, it happens occasionally), I carefully consider the synastry. The reason for this article is my feeling of dislike of a long term friend with whom I share a squared Venus. If one has a casual relationship, these aspects do not manifest. However, if one grows closer, one will feel them. That is not to say that one ends the friendship. It is merely to say that the charts will always come to pass.
I get frustrated with the “woke” people who think they can overcome chart aspects by chanting Ohm. You can’t. You will find this out in time. So, exchange the hubris of your “woke”(COUGH) status for a little humility. Onto Astrology
Sun square Sun
This, likely, applies to the Suns when they are in squared signs even if they do not aspect. The people do things very differently. In the case of Gemini/Virgo, Gemini has a “devil may care” attitude and Virgo counts the jars in the refrigerator. I think that of any planet to be squared, your best bet is the Sun. The Sun is the ego and if there is love and connection, people can overcome the ego. However, it will make for fights along the way.
Venus square Venus
I think one could have a relationship if one has excellent Moon aspects to overcome the Venus. However, the Venus square would be there in the manner of a “sore thumb”. Venus is what attracts us to a person or conversely repels us. In the case of a Venus square, there would be some level of repulsion.For example, one person could be very picky, as in Virgo Venus. One person could be loose with details, as in Gemini Venus. Hence, a natural antipathy can develop.
Mars square Mars
I am told that there can be an initial attraction. I have not had a relationship with a squared Mars, so cannot speak from experience but I do know that the relationship rarely lasts. Mars is a powerful planet. It is drive. Hence, the thwarting of the square does not bode well.
Moon square Moon
I will relate a story of a girl who mocked me and tried to humiliate me(she didn’t) on my stance on Moon square Moon as not being able to work. She moved in with her boyfriend, with whom she had a squared Moon. The upshot of the story was that he tried to strangle her. She moved out, wrote to me and apologized.
Moon squares will not work. One heart thwarting another will not work.If you tell me you have it and it does or Grandpa and Grandma have it and have been married for 50 years, I don’t believe it was a happy marriage. Don’t urinate on my leg and tell me it is raining.
Mercury square Mercury
This would drive me crazy. I am not sure if I ever had it. I never really paid attention to more superficial relationships. I have never had it in a close relationship. If my mind does not connect with yours, I cannot see a reason to have a relationship with you(Spoken by a Gemini Mercury and Venus)
I hope this article has provided some insights and spurs you on in your pursuit of astrology!