I love tidbits. I think many of my precious readers do, too, from my comments. I hope you enjoy these and feel free to comment on any that strike you personally.
1.If you have Dejanira conjunct your MC and are abused, people will see it.Nicole Simpson had this and the world saw her abused. You may, also, be abused at work. Basically, when people see you, they will see a victim.( I hate to be so blunt but each person has to accept reality and every chart has some of these hard things)
2.If you have Dejanira conjunct your IC, you have been abused as a child.
3. If Dejanira is conjunct your DSC, you may not show your own victim side, but be attracted to people who do.
4.Chiron conjunct the Moon reveals a lot of pain with the mother and, also, with one’s own emotions.
5.Sado conjunct the Moon is a sadistic person (Sorry, Guys!)
6. Sado conjunct the IC is a person who experienced sadism as a child, usually by the mother but not always the mother.
7.Ceres conjunct the MC in a sexy guy makes him totally charismatic and totally compelling to others.
Johnny Carson had this. In his personal life, he was not really warm, but in public, he was one of the sexiest men who ever existed( my opinion)
Watch him on U tube if you don’t know him.
8. Pluto square Mars can give a sexy, smoldering quality in a man. The reason is that he could be violent. I know this sounds bad to say, but we do like smoldering in a man. However, Johnny Carson did have this and he was violent, so at least I told you about it.
9. Scorpio Ascendant does not like people to know too many personal details about them, even seemingly innocuous ones. We don’t know Melania Trump’s ASC( Ascendant), but I read a book about her. She reveals nothing to people, which makes me think she is a Scorpio ASC. Jackie Kennedy was the same way. She said she did not want the “little people” to know her daily activities. Johnny Carson is a Scorpio ASC, too. The native is, usually, sexy, simply based on this ASC.
10.Watch out for Nessus conjunct the ASC. These people are natural abusers. Meghan Markle is one.Nessus conjunct the North Node is the same.
11. Nessus conjunct the IC finds themselves attracted to abusers. However, every abuser hides this part of their nature at the beginning. This should go without saying.
12.Pluto conjunct the ASC seems to be intimidating. They appear to be tough. However, they may or may not be.
13. I have to say this again because it never fails, although it is in my other Tidbits series. Lilith conjunct the ASC is always sexy and she loves the attention.
14. Lilith conjunct the MC is always sexy, but she does not like the attention.
15.Watch out for Bilk conjunct the Sun. This person will try to use you for personal gain.
16. Mars conjunct Venus is always very sexy.
17.Venus conjunct the Sun is always charming, but may be too much of a people pleaser, through no fault of his own. It is simply the chart energies.
18. In synastry, watch out for Neptune in any aspect to Venus. The people won’t be able to see each other. It is worse for the Venus person.
19.Pluto conjunct the Sun person always has a great deal of personal power and inner strength. Check the house to see the predominant area in which their strength manifests.
20.Mars conjunct the Moon had a hard time with the mother. Also, they are very irritable.
Hi Ami,
I always look forward to a new astrology post on your blog and love these tidbits. I have Moon trine Chiron and my Chiron conjuncts my mother’s Pisces Sun. I love my mother but my relationship with her has not always been easy. It’s not that she was unkind or harsh, more that she relied on my compliance as a very young child due to my brother’s behavioural problems and I felt I had to accommodate her feelings over my own needs. I was put in the role of the quiet, good one who wouldn’t make demands on her.
I so appreciate you spending your valuable time here and commenting, too. I feel like I know you!
I have Dejainra and Lilith conjunct MC and Scorpio ascendant. I also have Sedna in my 6th house meaning that I’ve been victimized at some of my jobs. With my Midheaven I’ve been abused in public but according to Tameem Saied and some astrologers I can make a career helping out abuse victims. I do want to help abused children and domestic violence victims one day and do astrology on the side.
Thank you Ami, I love these tidbits! I can totally relate to Venus-Neptune. I have the opposition with someone (I am the Venus person) and omg it’s like… fog. Can’t get a grip of this person, and lots of misunderstandings. Sometimes it’s like I’m invisible. Even though I have Pluto conjunct my asc lol
Yes, Neptune/Venus is horribly fogging
I also love reading whatever you post. Would you please provide the numbers that we would use it Astro.com for all of the asteroids you use? Thanks in advance! Amy a.k.a. Pisces rising.
I know I should do this, but I am lazy–Libra ASC. I have a whole list of the asteroids with the numbers for you, though!
I very much like what Janay Matthews said about directing the energy created by dejanira conjunct MC into helping victims of abuse. I have that aspect in Libra and have thought about changing to a profession in counseling many times recently. I have been in the tech industry almost 30 yrs and am ready for something more fulfilling.
Thank you so much. I either want to go to grad school with social work or counseling or just do peer work dealing with these issues. We are survivors and people deserve to be safe and empowered.
Janay, what a beautiful and positive way of focusing that energy!! May the Lord guide your steps in achieving all your goals! You can do it! 🙂
Thank you. I wish you well with your career change.
Hello Ami. God bless you!
I love your content especially when you talk about asteroids. I did not find much content about Ceres on the internet. I would love to hear more about Ceres.
I have Ceres and pluto conjuct mc by 2 degrees and I also have venus trine ascendant exact.
People say I am charismatic, and have big heart. But i definitively have that intense pluto energy. I tend to obcess with aesthetics, appearance and i sometimes chasing girls.
I never heard of Johnny Carson, i will watch his videos. My Ceres conjuct pluto in MC has always intrigued me because of mythology, they were like opponents because of proserpine.
Thank you for that tidbit!
You sound lovely, S. Thanks for being here!
Thank you. I wish you well with your career change.
Eleni 14 September 2020 13:13
Hi my dear Ami🌞🌹
You are a very good astrologer, and while I follow the sidereal astrology or astronomical sidereal astrology, of 13 signs, I am learning very much things, with your interpretations for aspects, and, of course your posts with asteroids. And with your interpretations in synastries.
Of course, with some I don’t agree, for example orbs. Because, my experience show me, that orbs may be more wide. Or for some asteroids, for example Hekate. She is not so bad! I think, she is only the light in the darkness, which show us from where we can walk in our life. It is not her wrong, if through we see inside to us, or to others, or in the situations in life, may be we will see and unpleasant things.
I like to search about astrology generally many-many years ago, from my teens. You see, I have Mercury conjuct Uranus with orb 1° 17′, and Mercury conjuct Pluto with orb 2° 55′. And Mercury is in the middle of two planets! Can you imagine it?
However, I would like to say, that there is a….. how can I say it? Ok, look, it is about synastry Sun/Chiron.
You say, that the person of the Sun, does throw up on the person of the Chiron all his-her pain. And that the person of the Sun, demands from the person of the Chiron to teach him-her.
In fact, happens the opposite.
My mother’s Chiron parallel my Sun! And I have THE aspect: my Moon parallel Nemesis.
All my life I am hearing her endless complainings. And she demands of me, to teach her what to she can do, with her problems. And she never helps me. And my sister the same. My sister’s aspects:
Her Chiron square my Venus
Her Chiron square my North Node
Her Chiron square my Mars
Her Chiron square my Moon
Her Chiron square my asteroid Hygeia
Her Chiron square my asteroid Conscience
Her Chiron square my asteroid Akashi
All the time, she asks to help her, to advise her. And, almost never, both of two, follow what I say to them.
And, a very good friend of mine, has her Chiron opposite of my Sun! And, she tell me all her problems, and pains. Of course, I tell her my problems, too, emmmm……..the most of the times, and we discuss them.
But, for generally, if I start to say my pain, and problems, i find a wall in front of me from many not so good friends, who I was help them. They say that, they wants me to be strong.
My mother say the same. She wants me “strong” to help, she wants my Sun to help her!
I tell to you all of this for to show to you my option, my proofs, about hard aspects Sun/Chiron.
With my love
Lionmind (Online name)
Eleni 14 September 2020 13:13
Hi my dear Ami🌞🌹
You are a very good astrologer, and while I follow the sidereal astrology or astronomical sidereal astrology, of 13 signs, I am learning very much things, with your interpretations for aspects, and, of course your posts with asteroids. And with your interpretations in synastries.
Of course, with some I don’t agree, for example orbs. Because, my experience show me, that orbs may be more wide. Or for some asteroids, for example Hekate. She is not so bad! I think, she is only the light in the darkness, which show us from where we can walk in our life. It is not her wrong, if through we see inside to us, or to others, or in the situations in life, may be we will see and unpleasant things.
I like to search about astrology generally many-many years ago, from my teens. You see, I have Mercury conjuct Uranus with orb 1° 17′, and Mercury conjuct Pluto with orb 2° 55′. And Mercury is in the middle of two planets! Can you imagine it?
However, I would like to say, that there is a….. how can I say it? Ok, look, it is about synastry Sun/Chiron.
You say, that the person of the Sun, does throw up on the person of the Chiron all his-her pain. And that the person of the Sun, demands from the person of the Chiron to teach him-her.
In fact, happens the opposite.
My mother’s Chiron parallel my Sun! And I have THE aspect: my Moon parallel Nemesis.
All my life I am hearing her endless complainings. And she demands of me, to teach her what to she can do, with her problems. And she never helps me. And my sister the same. My sister’s aspects:
Her Chiron square my Venus
Her Chiron square my North Node
Her Chiron square my Mars
Her Chiron square my Moon
Her Chiron square my asteroid Hygeia
Her Chiron square my asteroid Conscience
Her Chiron square my asteroid Akashi
All the time, she asks to help her, to advise her. And, almost never, both of two, follow what I say to them.
And, a very good friend of mine, has her Chiron opposite of my Sun! And, she tell me all her problems, and pains. Of course, I tell her my problems, too, emmmm……..the most of the times, and we discuss them.
But, for generally, if I start to say my pain, and problems, i find a wall in front of me from many not so good friends, who I was help them. They say that, they wants me to be strong.
My mother say the same. She wants me “strong” to help, she wants my Sun to help her!
I tell to you all of this for to show to you my option, my proofs, about hard aspects Sun/Chiron.
With my love💖🌼
Eleni, Greece
Thank you so much Eleni for that wonderful post. I am so glad you are here and I appreciate your sharing your heart so openly!
Hi Ami! 😄
Sorry for my soooo long post! Please, tell me your opinion. I have Mercury conjuct uranus and pluto
Mercury conjuct Uranus 1° 17′
Mercury conjuct Pluto 2° 53′
Mercury conjuct Kaali exact 0° 33′
Mercury conjuct Hekate 0° 27′
Mercury sextile Moon 5° 00′
Mercury opposite Saturn 7° 51
Sun bi-quintile Chiron
Moon sextile Uranus 3 °43
Moon conjuct Mars 1° 25′
Moon conjuct North Node 3° 28′
Moon conjuct Venus 5° 10′
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I can only do a few, my Friend. Merc conj Uranus–brilliant but mind races.Merc conj Pluto–very perceptive
Thank you Ami
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I have Vesta in house 10 meaning that I can be very giving when it comes to my career but I must be careful to not let others take advantage of me.
Yes, J, it is a struggle for many of us, myself included!
Hi, im just curious, does lilith conjunct mc applied to any lilith like bml and dark moon? coz my darkmoon lilith conjuncts my mc in 9th house
Yes, I would say all the Liliths, although I mainly do the asteroid.
I have Dejanira exactly conjunct my ascendant😳
How would this play out for me?
I’m a little surprised by “18. In synastry, watch out for Neptune in any aspect to Venus. The people won’t be able to see each other. It is worse for the Venus person.” Even the trine and sextile?
The trine and sextile are good. The hard aspects cause trouble
I have Chiron square Moon. Does this play out the same way as the conjunction?
No, it is more of a hidden pain—a pushed down pain that may turn into depression more than acting out on it
*sigh* astrology amazes me with its accuracy.
Yes, me too. Every chart is a new adventure!