Yikes, this is a big topic. This will get a lot of tomatoes thrown in my face. Oh well, I am here to serve and it is not always pretty. On to the topic. Some of these aspects I can say with a good deal of certainty that the person will become a victim. I will tell you which ones. Others when in conjunction with many “weak” personality aspects COULD result in the person becoming a victim. I hope to make it clear for you.
Ten Aspects for Being a Victim
1. Dejanira conjunct the Ascendant
This aspect is classic for being bullied. Many people seem to be bullied as children by other children. This was the case of Kate Middleton, who has a wide conjunction. Others are bullied by someone else, such as a parent However, in most cases of people with this aspect, they are bullied as children by other children.
2. Dejanira conjunct the MC
This aspect would be a bullying that would be more public.The MC is the public angle. Anything that conjuncts the MC others will see. I think Nicole Simpson had it. Bullying could be in the workplace.I think Jon Benet Ramsey had this aspect. Both of the above were “well known” victims.
3.Venus conjunct Chiron
In this case, love brings pain. It is more of a case of pain being brought to the native than bullying, per se.For the natives with this aspect, I have seen several keep trying to find a new relationship in which they do not suffer. However, I have yet to see it happen. The charts play out regardless of how many “woke” people think otherwise.
4 Nessus conjunct the Descendant
In this instance, we should stop and talk about the nature of the Descendant. It is the angle in which we DENY aspects of ourselves and find them in others. Hence, if one denies one’s own dark nature, one will, likely, find it in the partner. Nessus on one of the darkest asteroids. It is a marker of abuse.Please, watch all aspects to the Descendant so you can be aware of this.
5. Pisces Moon
Let me say clearly that not all Pisces Moon natives are victims. However, all are too gentle for this harsh world. If a Pisces Moon also had a Dejanira conjunct the Ascendant or MC, I would bet a lot that he/she (please don’t make me say “it”) would be abused.
6. Sedna conjunct the Sun
The story of Sedna is one of the saddest I have heard. Her father tried to kill her by drowning. She tried to claw her hands up to the boat. He pried off her fingers. The myth can have different endings. In one, she marries and her husband becomes a monster.Hence, in the case of the Sedna conjunct the Sun, the native(male or female) will have extreme betrayal by the father and other men.
7.Moon conjunct Medea
The myth of Medea tells us about a woman who killed her children in revenge for her husband’s infidelity. The native with Medea conjunct the Moon has a a strong tendency for revenge. Her mother likely rejected her and other women may do the same. Don’t underestimate this power of this asteroid. It was pivotal in the cases of Chris Watts and Casey Anthony. I want to add that people who have aspects such as these do not usually recognize them. Astrology allows us to see into our souls.
8.Pluto conjunct the Descendant
This aspect does not tell us the native will be a victim. However, she may deny her own personal power and look for a very strong partner. If this native has Dejanira conjunct the Ascendant or MC, the person may be a victim of abuse.
9.Stellium of personal planets in the 7th House
A stellium is three planets in one house. Personal planets are felt very deeply by the native and dictate many actions and reactions. The 7th house is the house of the “other”. I am not saying this native will be abused. However, she will likely struggle with co-dependency. Any time we need another person for our happiness, we run into trouble. All of us struggle with this but the 7th house stellium native suffers much worse.
10 Dejanira conjunct the IC
The IC is the early home. I would venture to say that all natives with this aspect have been abused(badly) as children.