One thing that I find about Astrology is that one gets better with practice. In that way, it is like medicine. I wrote an earlier article on aspects that would make me “run”. Now, I know more. Hence, I will write an updated articles. Some aspects are new. Some are “oldies but goodies”. In all cases, I would not want a long term relationship if a chart had any of these aspects. However, some aspects are SO seductive that I may touch my little toe to the water. I know that is dangerous, but we have all been warned, so if we get burned, we have no one to blame but ourselves. Onto the aspects!
1. Chiron conjunct the NN
The Chiron person WILL bring great pain to the North Node person. I would not want to be either person.
2. Nessus conjunct the Sun
The Nessus person will abuse the Sun person. The Nessus person does not have to be a “bad person”, so to speak. The Nessus energy propels someone to abuse.
3. Mars square Pluto
This aspect makes for sexy violence. Before all you feminists go insane, I mean those kind of sexy vibes that lead to wild sex. (Why do I have to explain myself so much?) This aspect would not doom a relationship for me, but I would give pause.
4. Venus Conjunct Uranus
This aspect would not doom a relationship, per se. If a relationship had good Moon aspects, one could live with the Venus/Uranus conjunction. The Venus/Uranus conjunction makes for a wild, wild first attraction. However, one can be deceived that there is more than simple, albeit powerful, attraction. One must look to other aspects, such as the Moons, to see heart and soul.
5. Nessus Conjunct the North Node
This aspect is so bad that I would not stick around to say “Hello”. I would say I had to leave for a hair appointment. Remember that the North Node shows the PURPOSE of the relationship. Nessus is abuse. For all you people who no not want to hear me say that—- NESSUS IS ABUSE!
6. Nessus Conjunct the IC
The IC is a very sensitive point in any chart. It reminds me of underwear. Underwear is very intimate and very personal. Only the closest of people see one’s underwear *sigh*. The IC is one of the most sensitive points in the entire chart. Make sure that your partner does not give you a zinger in your most sensitive of places.
7. Uranus Conjunct the IC
If there is any planet of which I am afraid, it is Uranus. Uranus loves to shock. It reminds me of the person who hides behind the door and jumps out at you or who knows your deepest secret and uses it to wound you *sigh*. I have one of those in my family. Do you want someone to shock you in your underwear?
8.Moon Square Moon
I X N E all the way. I would end the relationship before it started if it had squared Moons. The Moon is the heart. If someone can’t understand your heart and/or fights you at every juncture, who needs it?
9. Moon Conjunct Mars
I don’t like this aspect at all. The Mars person picks the Moon person to death.
10. Mars Square Mars
This makes for initial wild passion but ends with people putting sugar in the car engine of the other. Stop before you start, if you can.