I will use Meghan’s chart to help us explain why people dislike her so very much. I will use Psychology. I will use common sense. First of all, one reason I have such an interest in Meghan is because I have a very close relative who is a Malignant Narcissist. I have suffered terribly from this relationship. There are no words for the suffering the MN(Malignant Narcissist) inflicts on others.
Meghan has helped me to understand the MN and to heal. Nothing helped me to the degree she has. For others who had a MN parent, husband or someone from whom they could not escape, I offer this article to you with love.
First of all, the MN has certain distinct traits. One is lack of empathy. To be close to a person with no empathy is akin to living with a monster. One has to throw off parts of oneself in order to appease the monster and to survive. One has to jettison one’s dignity, one’s connection to one’s intuition and other vital parts of the one’s humanity. One lives in constant fear of what the MN will do if one does not. I have lived in fear my entire life. It is a fear that permeates one’s soul. When the MN is long gone, one is still fear ridden.
Lack of empathy is a deep, all encompassing trait in the MN. The MN can’t make it go away, in the same manner in which a zebra cannot change its stripes. The MN can not turn it off, in the same manner in which one cannot change one’s race. It is consistent and it is STUCK. Most MNs know that there is something wrong with them and they fake empathy. They do not know that they are faking empathy, per se. They do know that they are not normal and must try to “act normal”.
One could describe the MN with a single phrase–An egomaniac with an inferiority complex. Truly, they have very little self esteem. As a result, they inflate themselves like a grotesque balloon. This brings us to another MN trait. They are very, very sensitive to criticism. Everyone is hurt by criticism, but the MN is mortally wounded. .
From the lack of true self flow many MN traits. She can manipulate people without caring about how they feel. She can flirt with the husbands of “friends”, such as Serena Williams, and not care that Serena is betrayed and hurt. Serena has cut Meghan off, by the way. The MN can do all manner of hideous things because she has no empathy.
The MN is a train wreck. The MN does not anticipate consequences. The MN does not think deeply. They are so grandiose about their own importance that they do the most moronic things and then blame others, of course. It is never their fault.
Meghan is a classic study in being a “train wreck”. Meghan truly thought she could be the next Princess Di by trying to emulate Princess Di in SUPERFICIAL ways. Meghan said she wanted privacy as Princess Di did. Meghan dressed like Princess Di. Meghan fought against the palace as Princess Di did i.e rebellion, such as opening her own door, not wearing stockings and keeping her social media. Meghan tried to be a “humanitarian” as Princess Di was. However, she did not have the depth of emotional intelligence to see she could never be a Princess Di.
Princess Di gave England two sons. Meghan was not even pregnant with Archie. Her pregnancy was a “fake out” for public consumption. Meghan used a surrogate. It was, likely, not her egg. It may have been Harry’s sperm, but I am not sure about this. To make it much worse, Archie was not perfect. He has some kind of a disability, such as Downs Syndrome, and so, she does not want him. Hear this, the MN has to appear perfect. If you are her child, you must appear perfect. Your purpose in life, according to her is to make her “look good”. If you don’t, you will be punished. You will be persecuted and you will be hated!
The MN will make you pay if you mar her image. Meghan is doing this to Harry.Meghan set up the Greta call to Harry, which made Harry look like an utter fool. Meghan is very hateful to Kate. Kate makes Meghan look bad, in Meghan’s mind, because Kate has three beautiful children, is refined, is elegant and is a model of decorum. Meghan does not know HOW to, actually, do and be these things. She can “fake it” for a time. However, that time will come to an end. Then, people can see her for what she is—a huge fake.
Now that I say this, I feel badly for her. She cannot help it. How she came to be this way, I don’t know. I think a person has to be prone to be an MN. Some people have terrible abuse and do not become MNs. However, I think there had to be some level of abuse in order to become an MN, but the abuse may not have been that bad. The person I know who is an MN did not have the abuse level that was horrid, so to speak.I had more abuse than she did. However, I have many, many gifts in my chart which helped me cope with my childhood. One was the ability to lose myself in books. Hence, new worlds were open to me. I,also, was very social, so I could make friends and escape my home. I think is is more the make up of a person that tends them to make them an MN.
A word about Meghan’s faux pregnancy and how it highlights her MN personality. First of all, some people may choose to hide the fact that they have a surrogate. Some people may use a “baby bump” to appear pregnant. However, to flaunt that baby bump and to act like you are almost a literal gymnastics at eight months pregnant is a sign of an MN. The MN always has to be the best at everything. Meghan was a woman who was ostensibly eight months pregnant and yet was nimble enough to bend down and squat, wearing very high heels, with no trouble. That made her “superior” to other pregnant women. Life, in all its facets, is a competition to them. They have to win, even in the seemingly trivial things like being the most nimble pregnant woman who ever existed.
I do feel sorry for her. However, any relationship with an MN will destroy you, the person with empathy. They do not care about you. In fact, they, often, desire to destroy you because it makes them feel powerful or you gave them a perceived slight. *SIGH*. It is really terrible. I hope this article has helped, a bit, in your journey to healing if someone in your life is an MN. I am grateful to Meghan for truly helping me to heal the fact that I blamed myself for how the MN treated me. We all do until we can see the truth. My hope for you is that his article helped you, a bit, to see the truth.