Thank Goodness for astrology because it will answer the above question. I got the birth date of someone who does a particular service for me. I do not like her at all and she does not like me. This is at a deep feeling level. We are very pleasant to each other. In the contest of our relationship, we are pleasant and chatty. I thought the problem would be moons. However, our moons are sextile by sign, so not an issue.
AHA Her Saturn/Chiron conjunction makes a T square with my North Node and my Sun. Well, I do feel that she does not wish me well. That is kind of the main feeling I have with her. This would explain it. She would be a thwart to my life purpose and my confidence. That is exactly how it feels. These aspects are very close, too—– 1-3 degree orb.