Want a Magical Ball Which Will Show You Your Relationship From the First Glance To The Last Kick In The Pants?
“No problem,” she says. The synastry will show a picture, in bas relief,of your first meeting. It will show your feelings, in detail, about each other. It will show if you “get” each other. It will show if you have electrical attraction. It will show if you will be swept up into soul mate ties with each other *SIGH*. It will show if this person will play out your old abuse( and we, often, do) It will show if you will be the victim or the abuser. It will show where he will put an iron fist on your dreams( if this is to be). It will show where you will disparage his(if this is to be) It will show the good, bad and ugly about you and him.The chart is like the Bible, in this way. Man is not shown, at his best. He is shown, as he is.
After you mine all you can from the synastry, you will want to go the Composite. This will come into play if you live together or marry. At that point, the Composite will show all details of the relationship, as it is a chart of the relationship. Of course, most people have no idea what they bargained for when they say ‘I do”. The Composite can clear that up, if one will get out of the throes of passion enough to look. That would be the biggest challenge for the Astrologer i.e to make these crazy kid see the light of day. (Kids can be any age)
It is strange that there will, often, be a wonderful synastry and a not so great composite. The synastry will attract you to each other. One must be attracted or why bother? However, living together and functioning as a couple is quite another thing. The Composite should be your engagement present to the loving couple.
When one examines the Composite, one can ask any question one wants to explore. Does your relationship seem like it is work? (Emphasis on the 6th house) Do you look stunning as a couple( emphasis on the 1st house) Do you have hidden parts of the relationship which no one talks about( Emphasis on the 12th house). Do you want to abuse each other( Nessus) Do you feel victimized( Dejanira). Are you passionate( moon/Pluto) The list goes on and on. as you can tell.
Please, look at your own relationship, and more especially, those to which you plan to enter. It is sad the ravages of relationship break-ups, especially when there are children.