You know the guy your girlfriends told you about. They said he was bad. You said that they just didn’t understand. I am writing this article to you: those gals( and guys) who found the prince but he tuned into a frog When the frog bit them, they sustained a serious wound. They still don’t know what happened. Have no fear. Ami is here.
First of all, you have to know what you are dealing with with Neptune. Neptune is as beautiful as the most delicious poetry and music that melts your soul. Neptune can take you into the spheres. However, Neptune can make you think that the frog is the prince. When you wake up, you may have lost all you have, including your dignity and even your life. If you have not lost your life, you may be wishing for death. Hang in there with me. We are going to learn how you can avoid this mess, if you listen. However, you probably won’t. Don’t say I didn’t tell you.
When there is a fire, they tell you to stop, drop and roll. I am doing the same thing, so lets start. That which Neptune touches, it will fog. If is touches your emotions, it will fog those. This would be Neptune/Moon. If it touches your ego, it will fog that. This would be Neptune/Sun. If it touches your love nature, it will fog that. This would be Neptune/Venus. Let’s make this practical and apply it to synastry.
If you think you have met the man of your dreams, hurry to the charts. If his Neptune opposes your Venus, hang onto your hat and trust me. You don’t see him as he is. One day you will. When that day comes, the scales will come off your eyes.Then, you will be in a state of shock, as if you sustained a car accident. You will be numb. You will feel duped, used and stupid. Everyone gets one free ride on the Neptune mobile. Make it count and don’t do it again. Everyone is a Neptune virgin once.
Let’s dissect what happened. Neptune shrouds what it touches in an ethereal beauty. If you feel that your beloved is as beautiful as an original Picasso, you know that Neptune has bitten you. However, when Neptune’s fog lifts, you will return to your right mind. Then, you will see things as they are. At that point, you will have developed a profound respect for Neptune. He doesn’t play around when it comes to beauty, even if it is just a dream. Neptune rules dreams, too.
Lets see other ways in which Neptune can play out in synastry. His Neptune may touch your Moon. You may doubt what you feel. His Neptune may touch your Sun. You may doubt your own thoughts. Your self confidence may take a nose dive. However, Neptune takes you to the heavens up before it lets you fall. If his Neptune touches your Sun, initially you will feel big and bad and full of confidence. If his Neptune touches your Moon, initially you will feel a warm glow to your emotions. However, you will, most likely,take the inevitable fall, so be prepared. If his Neptune conjuncts your ASC. You cannot see him for who he is, in general. Know that you can’t trust yourself. Ask others. It is good to do this, on a regular basis, when there is a strong Neptune in synastry. No man is an island and this applies more so when one cannot see beyond the ethereal fog which is Neptune’s stock in trade.
Omg Ami, my Neptune is conjunct my Moon by less than 3 degrees in my 7th house in Scorpio!.
Are my emtions fogged intensely? Because of this conjunction, anything in synastry that touches my 7th house and Moon also touches my Neptune. (Additionaly my Dejanira is exactly trine my Neptune)
Is that why i keep dating ‘totally wrong’ people who end up leaving me drained, hurt or shocked?
But at the same time, my neptune recieves an exact sextile from my 5th house Mars-Pluto conjunction. Does that help? How can get Mars-Pluto to help here?
I was talking about synastry, Marion but it can be the same for the natal. Neptune fogs what it touches. It will fog your emotions and make it hard for you to see them clearly. I would need you to put the chart up in my Forum and ask me the questions because there are about 4-5 questions lol
Start a new thread with your chart and copy and paste these questions on it, so we have them, Marion dear.
Thanks ami, I feel i am taking up too much of your time..so having second thoughts about putting up the chart.
No, Marion, I love looking at charts on my Forum. Go for it! 😀
Ok will do..lets see what kind of relationship illusions 7th house moon-neptune is whipping up for me.
Hi Ami, love your website, and just finished reading about Neptune in synastry. We have a lot of Neptune in our chart, and I keep going onto the Neptune mobile with him – it’s up and down – nothing I can do it seems like. Complete surrender, flowing, swimming in the waves, and it’s heaven and hell. Any chance you could look at our chart and comment? Thanks so much, Diamond.
Welcome, Diamond and thank you soo much. I am not able to look at charts the way I used to for the sheer fact of being so busy. I would have to offer a professional chart to you, my Friend.
Hi Ami, please let me know how to go about the professional chart? Thanks, Diamond
Write to my e mail, D. morelove@mychristianpsychic.com. I have about a 3 week wait time. I do one chart at a time, unless it is a single question chart, with which I may do at the same time as a full synastry or natal. It would depend how complicated the chart is. I would have to see and let you know if it would take more time or was relatively clear at the beginning. For the full natal or synastry, I have about a 3 week wait but I would love to talk to you about it and would love to do a chart for you when I have done these 3 that are waiting lol
“Neptune is as beautiful as the most delicious poetry and music that melts your soul”.
Oh my… 😀 It works even at a distance. Growing up, I have had some celebrity crushes, and they felt sunny, light. And then I grew up and, out of the blue, had THAT crush. Holy moly! If anybody ever told me that I would be drowning my PC keyboard in my saliva, while swooning at the sight of a stranger 20 years my senior and hanging on his every word and gesture… I would laugh my head off. I would, yeah. Before that minute, where I suddenly felt hypnotized.
The man was doing nothing special. He was sitting in front of the interviewer, seemingly quite uncomfortable and a little shy. Words were coming slowly out of his pepper-and-salt facial hair. Neither his face, nor his body could make me call him handsome or alluring (too thin here, not wide enough there… not much to sink my teeth into!). But boy! If anybody dared point that out, I would rip the poor kamikaze in two.
I could have gotten away. But, to my bad luck, the man was saying something intelligent! And this traps me like honey traps a bee. My destiny was sealed. The whole day was wasted on YouTube, but didn’t feel like a waste.
Luckily, I have this online friend, who vibed with every fiber of her being at the news, “At last somebody gets me!”. She revealed a secret list of, at least, 8 guys across the ocean, who made her swoon and gasp in a much similar way.
Guess, Ami, what we found out. ALL of her guys had their Neptune conjunct her Moon. At their sight, according to her, she was hearing the wedding bells and planning the honeymoon all around the world. She, a free spirit, with her Moon in Saggy.
And mine had his Neptune conjunct my Venus in Scorpio. I will be demure and say that I would devour him alive. And not care a second about his feelings or sensations, which doesn’t resemble me at all.
This scary kind of infatuation has passed. Ok, for me it was not real. But for those who are touched by Neptune of their significant others, is there any chance they won’t wake up sad? Romance is always good for a couple. Can Neptune be there for good, if the overall synastry is harmonious?
Yes, Neptune can be good, for sure, Julia but not usually the square and opposition.
what about synatry….Venus trine Neptune …Neptune trine Venus…
Well, the trine may play out well, with deception being more of rose colored glasses rather than destruction, P.
Honestly I am shocked with this information.But I wonder if this is a supportive aspect if three is neptune trine sun synastry for both two sides
The trine is different, Love. The other aspects are more problematic. The trine can bring a nice rosy glow to the relationship.
Who´s the one feeling foggy, the Neptune or the Venus/Moon?? I have with my crush his Venus conjunct my Neptune and his Moon trine my Neptune and also my Venus trine his Neptune. Is this bad??
Curious on your take: In trying to better learn synastry, I syns-stalked all ex flames I could think of within the past five years, and one that actually never left the ground intrigued me quite a bit for ALL of our personal planets aspected one another in some majorly positive way in pretty tight orbs. Buuuuut…all but one of his personal planets also had a square to my Neptune, and the one that did not square my Neptune, mine squares to his Neptune. I’m not really interested in this relationship as nothing left the ground and I ended up (shocker) heartbroken and nebulous as to the logistics of the…relationship(?) for lack of better terms. However, in general, with situations such as this where my Neptune knocked down a plethora astrological greatness, can one always expect that Neptune has this power and ability to squash all positive aspects, always? (Harsh thought!)
Hi Ami Anne. My former friend’s Neptune is 4 degrees away from my Ascendant and my Neptune is almost exact her Ascendant.
Hard to see each other for what you really are, J.
Yep. We had unconditional love for each other but we also idealized each other. I put her on a pedestal. I was upset at her when I saw her flaws and actions but I’m not too proud of my behavior either. I don’t think I could hate some I loved dearly, permeaneatly. I still have love and compassion for her and I regret my poor actions. I miss her so much.
Ami, how can we make a moon square Neptune? Do open and honest communication gives hope to this. Also, what if u still like the person after turning out that he is not the kind you thought he was but u still come from a place of empathy and understanding, and continue to be so? When u realize that both of us are not perfect and never will be . U do have confusing emotions but then u end up getting clarity. Do u see it as a deal breaker or something that can be worked specially in marriage? Will appreciate your help. 🙂
And specially if it’s a double whammy?
Well, I would have to do a reading for you and see the whole chart to give a professional opinion but if this aspect is close for both people, you could find it hard to communicate so you would need good soul aspects to overcome it, Sam.
I LOVE the insights in this article! As usual, you have a way of explaining astrological concepts that helps me “SEE” them in a concrete way — THANK YOU!!! 🙂
My hubby and I have almost ALL our planets aspecting our Neptunes, between us – mine to his Moon, Saturn, Uranus; his to my Venus, Mars, Sun, AS, Saturn, Pluto…they are all Trines and Sextiles except Uranus (Square), my Saturn (Opposite), and Pluto (Semi-Square)….maybe this is what helps us stay so in love…?? We are VERY caring of and in-tune to eachother’s feelings, and he is mostly all I think about, and he’s said it’s the same for him. We DO have conflicts, and have disappointed eachother here and there, but there is always a desire to be understanding and accepting of our issues, and to do what’s needed to work them out.
HE is deceptive, almost as an unconscious expression of himself (12th house Sun??), but it’s never about major, relationship-threatening issues — he just tries so hard to project a “perfect partner” self, while I would much rather KNOW what is going on, and deal with/accept it (my 8th house Moon?)….so I am trying to learn to allow him to BE who he is, and not feel afraid of what else could be going on, or what I don’t know. It’s HARD for me!!! But this is where astrology has been SO helpful, being able to understand what is really going on between us and that my reactions to things are part of how I function, not “reality”!
Thank you so much Lisa. You made my day!
What about Neptune dw
Man’s Neptune conj Woman’s Sun
woman’s Neptune opposes Man’s sun
Be careful you are not deceived. You really cannot see through Neptune until it is too late.
Oh I see but the attraction is so strong I must let it play out.
My sun conjunct Neptune is conjunct his Venus and Neptune.
I see. Yes, we do go after things when we want them badly. I understand this, my Friend.
And the carnival ride has stopped! Oh what a ride. I would peek through the Neptune veil but the ride is so much fun so just a bit longer, just a bit more. Now it has ended. What a crazy ride it has been. My NN And Saturn in Pisces yes I got the lesson finally.
Omg! Just came across this. So interesting. My husband who I met @ 17 and I are seperated. We have been married 15 years. We’ve gone through a 3 year cycle where his actions about a certain issue do not reflect the man i thought he was, and could be my expectations were too high (I’m a Cappy 🤷♀️), but it left me so confused and stressed. I just noticed his Neptune trines my ASC.
Also, interesting is I have this almost insane, obsessive infatuation for a man I work with. I feel so drawn to him, I hate feeling like this, but I like it 🤦♀️. His Pluto trines my Sun, Moon & Venus, sextiles my Mars, his Mars squares my Venus. My ASC & Mars conjuncts his Sun, our North Nodes square eachother, my NN sextiles his Sun, and his damn Neptune opposes my Moon, while my Moon squares his Neptune! I cannot lie, I see wedding bells. I’m praying to avoid this but I don’t know if I can. I even transferred to another facility but ended up back 3 months later at the same facility because I hated the way things operated at the new place. I’m constantly thinking about him. The tension is like a big, ferocious T Rex. I wonder if there is any point in running 😭.
The other guy sounds like Nessus in synastry. Check that out and come back and tell me.How close does his Pluto trine your panets. What do your Moons do to each other like moon trine moon, moon square moon etc
Hi ami 🙂
This article hurts, having 3 personal planets opposite Neptune natally I need to look for men at least 15 years older than me, in order to get rid of harsh Neptune synastry aspects. I can’t feel attraction towards so much older men though 🙁 Does it change anything the fact that I already have it natally? Does it make it any worse or better when it’s repeated in the synastry? I feel like I’m doomed to delusion, deception and disappointment
My gf Neptune is trine my Ascendant, her Venus is sexile my Ascendant. She has a Neptune opposite Venus natal. Does this mean I’m able to help her with the opposition through my Ascendant? Or she will view my as something I’m not because her Neptune trine my Ascendant or vise versa?
Hi Ami,
Hope you are very well 😊.
How would you interpret venus conjunct neptune in synastry…. (my venus, his neptune) ….. is he a charmer and nothing else?! 😁
Neither will see the other as they are. You will be worse in this, so be very careful. Hope you are well, too, My Friend
Hiii Ami! love this post about neptune in synastry I’m obsessed with neptune and pluto as a Scorpio (of course I’m obsessed 😅🤣) could you tell me what a a conjunction between my mars and his neptune mean , I also have my neptune square his pluto… 😅
Hi Ami,
What do you think about these Neptune aspects?
I know these are too much to interpret but want a general comment from you because I’m a bit worried about what kind relationship we have. 🙂
– His Venus, Pluto, Cupido, Juno, Ceres, Eros, Nymphe, Sedna and Quaoar conjunct my Neptune. (also his Moon opposite my Neptune)
– My Pluto, NN, Chiron, Juno, Ceres, Valentine, Quaoar and ASC conjunct his Neptune. (also my Venus square his Neptune)