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The Hardest Aspects To Have in the Chart

These are not in order. These are just a result of my personal experience looking at charts

1. Mercury Combust the Sun–the closer the harder. Each degree matters. This aspect makes it very hard for a person to see himself with an objective eye. He is too close to himself, such as one house which is too close to another house. There is not the needed distance. People with the combust take things too personally. For example, if someone insults them, they react fast and in a defensive manner to protect their egos. Someone without the combust could pull back more and assess the situation. That is what I mean by the phrase” too close to oneself”

2. Asteroid Dejanira conjunct the Moon—all cases of this I have seen have had sexual abuse–very, very sad.

3. Chiron Conj the ASC–this is severe bullying that effects the person throughout life, such that they never get over it

4. Water Void–these people do not understand how they effect others, so they put their foots in their mouths and are off putting to others. Then, they are truly in pain, as they don’t understand why they were rejected.

5. Moon in the 12th– need to be intimate and close to others but fear and vulnerability stop it. They bring this pain on themselves and think it is others

6. Mars in the 12th—action is super hard. Expressing any passions is super hard. This makes the man wimpy, as he can’t stand up. Harder for a man than a woman.

7. Venus in Scorpio makes the person feel as if he/she is over sexed. The person can have a secret insecurity about this.

8. Mars in Cancer–the person cannot show his/her drives easily. He puts his emotions in his stomach and has stomach problems

9. Moon in Virgo–the person has a heart which can feel robotic and cold, as if they cannot feel, but think and reason, instead.

10. Child Asteroid Conjunct Dejanira–abuse but not as bad as Moon conjunct dejanira, but usually sexual abuse

10. Many planets in the 1st house. The person may be very self oriented, such that others are put off and the person does not know why.

11. Saturn Conj the Sun–Degrees matter a great deal here. An exact conjunction can be crippling. Once you hit 6 degrees, it will be more ambient. The person feels riddled with self doubt, as if a giant inferiority complex follows them around like the cloud which follows Pigpen in Charlie Brown.

12. Moon in Scorpio feels like a giant stone one must carry around one’s neck. The person is too intense such that he thinks his lover is cheating when she goes to the corner 7 -11 for milk. The Moon in Scorpio ramps emotional intensity up hundreds of decibels, by the sheer fact of this moon in this placement. He cannot help it He is , usually, ashamed to show people just how deeply he feels, as he is embarrassed.

13. Anything “bad” conjunct the North Node. I know that by the use of the word “bad”, I am going to have Astrologers coming out of the woodwork telling me that there is nothing bad. There are just challenges. I guess that is why I needed my own website. I can say what I want 😀 At any rate, something abusive such as Nessus, victimizing such as Dejanira, painful such as Chiron, limiting such as Saturn, giving betrayal such as Sedna etc etc will force the person to have a life with this theme. Isn’t that saying it straight out? YES

14. Squares of pivotal parts of the chart. Each planet is a part of the person, a slice of a person with a different function. Think of the human body with the heart, the brain, the lungs etc. Each does a distinct job and has a distinct nature. Each planet is the same. When you have the deepest heart( Moon) squaring the love part of a person( Venus), one has a disconnect between their deepest emotions and being able to show these emotions when they love. The square stays locked for life. This is another area where I will have Astrologers all over me, saying this is not true. I think it is. The opposition, on the other hand, allows for a back and forth motion, such as a yin/yan motion back and forth between either pole. So, it is not so locked in. The conjunction is a melding of the energies. This can be good or bad, depending on which planets and how close. For example, Mercury conjunct the Sun is a blessing when it is at 6 degrees. It is a sign of great intelligence. It can be a curse when it is exact, as it is one sign of mental illness imho. It is what I called the combust in my first entry.

15 Mercury square Uranus I hate this one, especially if it is exact. I cringe when I see it. This can be a sign of mental illness. This one makes me cringe second to Dejanira conjunct the Moon, which is my biggest cringe factor. How amazing is it that an Astrologer can know what someone went through, from a few symbols on the chart. There has to be a God, but that is another story lol

16. Venus in Aries in a man. This man does not like to chase. He does not like to be the aggressor in sex, either, which can be a problem for most woman, who want the man to be. He needs a woman to be the aggressor. The woman with Venus in Aries WILL be the aggressor. It is a reversed kind of situation.

17. Algol conjunct the ASC. Algol is the worst fixed star. It is associated with Charles Manson types. This is not to say you are a Charles Manson if you have this, but you will have dark impulses, most likely.

18. Pluto conjunct Venus–this is similar to a Scorpio Venus. The person will feel very, very sexual and may feel embarrassed or ashamed of it.

19. Neptune square Mercury. Neptune is the next world. One can leave this world and go to the next with imagination, creativity, music, art, God or drugs, alcohol and addictions which are harmful for us. Hence, Neptune is a double edged sword. When Neptune squares Mercury, the mind may tend to mental illness as Neptune dissolves what it touches and one needs a certain degree of solidity to have good mental health.

20. Jupiter with many planets( such as 3 or more) making squares or oppositions to it. This can dull the conscience and the sense of right and wrong.The more planets involved, the more severe the lack of conscience.

21. Stelliums in the 12th, 7th and 1st, in that order. A stellium is 3 or more planets in a sign. The 12th House is the hardest house. It hides what inhabits it. It represses and suppresses what inhabits it. It is very hard to deal with any 12th House planet, let alone 3 or more. The person will, often, have a hidden fantasy life or a complete double life. The 7th House stellium makes for co-dependency as the 7th House planets want other people to “do” the planet i.e. they want to find the nature of the planet in the partner. The 1st house stellium may make the person super self centered. It is all about them and they are the last to know lol

22. The Unaspected Moon is the one Unaspected planet which is not a gift to the native. The native is a gift to others, as the native is very sweet, tender and childlike, which is unusual in this hard, cold and hostile world. The Unaspected Moon is a child who never grew up. He brings a joy and openness to life that others appreciate. However, others hurt this sensitive person, as their own wounds are touched. Hence, the Unaspected Moon suffers a great deal from his inherent nature.

23. I am going to go out on a limb and say anything in Virgo is hard. Mercury would be the best planet to have in Virgo, as this would be the natural scientist or someone who could pay a lot of detail. However, Virgo makes a person be too hard on himself. He tries to be too perfect. He is too meticulous to the point of OCD. He is too exacting with detail to the point of being anal. With Virgo Sun, he is too hard on himself. With Virgo Venus, he is too picky about a mate. With Virgo Moon, he tries to be too perfect in his emotions. With Virgo Mars, he tries to be too perfect in reaching goals. He may get too caught up in details and drive himself crazy. I think Virgo is so hard because I think it is ruled bu Chiron, the planet of pain.

24. Capricorn ASC—May give the person a bony and kind of haunted appearance, such that the person may feel sensitive about how they look. The person may have a beaked like kind of nose.

25. Mars in Cancer in the 12th in a man’s chart–This man will be wimpy.

26. Moon in Cancer in the 12th in a man’s chart–This man will suppress his emotions. He may marry a cruel woman who will be brutal to him emotionally.

27. Any Moon in the 12th House in a man’s chart—Suppression of emotions and marries a cruel woman.

28. Uranus in the 12—Has quirks which are kept secret.

29. Pluto in the 12th–Has a secret fantasy life or a kind of double life where he/she is the “good” one and the “bad” one

30. Nessus in the 12th house- May be an abuser, but not know it.

31.Nessus conjunct the ASC—May abuse others.

32. Dejanira conjunct the ASC–Will be the victim of others.

 

 

 

157 thoughts on “The Hardest Aspects To Have in the Chart

  1. amiannGabby

    Pisces mars in 12th, met one, he married a b**ch and cant divorce because hes scared of her…so he still completely supports her, she sits on rear and complains about him, wont even take her kids to school or pick them up, he lives somewhere else and has to drive across town to get them every morning!

  2. amiannLily

    I have Mercury square Neptune and Uranus and I don’t have any mental illnesses? I think what you wrote is alittle too much of a generalisation considering usually aspects involving Mercury and Uranus points to innovation and intelligence?

    My Mercury square Neptune manifests in the way I express myself, I’ve been told I’m very creative.

    I also have Jupiter square mercury (this helps with creativity, writing and imagination) and it opposes Saturn, Uranus and Neptune (like everyone else born around the same time as me) and I actually have too much of a conscience. I can get guilt tripped so easily, I have really strong morals I uphold and I always do the right thing.

    Oh and I’ve never been addicted to drugs or drinking haha. So I think those aspects really aren’t that bad. I knew another girl who had the same aspects, she was brilliant and was one of the top students in my year back in high school. She was good at everything.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I hear you. I suppose I did generalize too much. The whole chart must be looked at, but for teaching purposes, one may have to generalize, but one must keep in mind it it just that. Thank you, Lily.

  3. amiannLily

    Oh and I have to add I used to get alot of awards for various subjects (came first in Maths and English before as well as Music and Art a few times, was on honour roll for 3 years and even came top of year in high school once) so I’m sure having Mercury aspecting the other outer planets benefited me greatly. 😉

    Or maybe it could be just genes haha.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Awww You have some mitigating factors for a mercury/Uranus square. which would give you stability. If a person had many other factors plus this square, they would have more of a struggle. To see the chart as a whole is the key!

  4. amiannNatalie

    Amiann, would there be any way you could look at my chart sometime? I don’t like to post it publicly, but I could really use some advice. I am seeing quite a few of these difficult aspects show up in my chart! Please let me know if you ever would have time to – if not, I definitely understand. Thanks! 🙂

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I am sorry. I would need you to put it in my Forum or purchase a reading from me. I may offer a cheaper reading than my full blown one that takes over week over intensive work for me. Honestly, there is no price for it, with the time, energy and care I put into it. Would you be interested in a more superficial reading from me, for which I would charge less? If so, I would consider it and talk about it with you.

  5. amiannBlackbird

    1. Sun conjunct Mercury.

    11. Sun conjunct Saturn.

    14. Hahahaha… hahah… where to begin?
    Sun square Ascendant.
    Moon square Venus.
    Moon square Mars.
    Mercury square Ascendant.
    Venus square Jupiter.
    Venus square Uranus.
    Venus square North Node.
    Mars square Jupiter.
    Mars square Uranus.
    Mars square North Node.
    Pluto square Ascendant.

    23. Venus in Virgo. Mars in Virgo.

    24. Capricorn Ascendant.

    1. amiannkerri

      i feel ya…
      sun square moon
      moon square saturn
      mars square uranus
      mars square ASC
      mars square DES
      jupiter square uranus
      saturn square neptune
      uranus square N Node
      uranus square 1c
      true node square ASC
      true node square DES..
      mars CONJ N Node
      Jupiter CONJ N node
      moon square Lilith

  6. amiannGabby

    Pluto conjunct Venus in 1st
    Mercury combust Sun
    Unaspected moon
    Moon in 12th
    Moon in virgo
    Virgo Asteroid Deianira conjunct virgo moon, and virgo child and virgo Juno and virgo bride in 12th house…I married my a abusers because that’s what I learned as love in my childhood, subconsciously it was what i knew, so it was the only thing that felt safe to me emotionally!

    Another toughie is Saturn square uranus….when its tight! I’ve had debates before with ppl saying this isn’t a hard aspect….but when it is a hard aspect, its explosive! When uranus finally breaks free of Saturn and starts to breath it can go crazy, like a starving person is ravenous for food uranus is ravenous for freedom and to have its needs mean something! It can be out of control, and I’ve read it can become violent if someone gets in the way and tries to stop or slow uranus as it runs for freedom!
    It certainly turned my life upside down, i packed up me and my 2 children(both under 3) got on a bus in the middle of the night with $175 to start our lives over…headed across the United States to a place I didn’t know, my ex had to hire private eye to find us….but I couldn’t let my kids be hurt like I was!
    That was the rebellious uranus finally waking up to fight saturns total control and oppression!

  7. amiannJane

    I think since Saturn Mars and Pluto is also in the 10th house but only Mars conjunct MC 7 deg and Saturn conjunct MC 1 deg. I also do not know how it is in my natal chart, Deja on MC.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Saturn conj the MC. Do you feel a burden to be perfect? xx Saturn conj the MC
      Deja conj the MC– are you victimized by society or in your career?

  8. amiannJane

    Yes, only when I was young until I realized that being depressed because I can’t have everything I want or be something I want to be is worst than just actually loving myself for who I am. I think Im being victimized by my career.

  9. amiannEllis

    5, 12, 23, 27 and 29. I have a lot of oppositions though.
    I have Sun, Mercury and Venus in Taurus in the 5th/6th house.
    I also have Moon and Pluto in Scorpio in the 12th house.
    Aaaand there’s my Aquarius Saturn squaring the lot of them.
    Oh Joy.
    -_-

  10. amiannpeach33

    Yikes. I have nessus in 12th looks like… and almost exact square to pluto. Also have nn in 12th it loosely conjuncts it by 10 degrees. Still not sure fully what nessus means but from what you describe, not good. For the most part I do live a peaceful life now, but definitely used to have my own issues with anger and being very self protective. The evolution of my buddhist practice has made great strides. I did have a very turbulent childhood and was abused only to leave home quite early into the arms of another abuser. This guy abuseded me very differently though… I suppose at the time he’d fit the description of malignant narcissist or something close.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Come put up your chart, dear one. You can ask any questions you have. look forward to talking more on my Forum and look forward to your lovely photo!

  11. amiannAnon

    Virgo as the only sign that suffers?? Oh come on. Why did you exclude the other signs that suffer equally? Pisces [stuck in servitude], Scorpio [painful transformations], Capricorn [anxious and loner feelings], Aquarius [misunderstood].

    As well, you mentioned things like Sun Conjunct Saturn. What about Sun Square Saturn? Or Lunar Nodes?

    Or what about the positive sides of Moon In Scorpio and Venus in Scorpio? Since when are these two ever seen as the ‘hardest aspects’?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Well, one has to look at planets in the Fall, Friend. Venus is in the Fall in Scorpio. Moon is in the Fall in Scorpio. Planets do not work well when in the Fall.

    2. amiannmarlena

      As someone who has prominent Uranus, Neptune and Pluto placements with Capricorn rising…
      I would agree with the “stuck in servitude” {until you wake up! and even then, you still want to serve so you gotta be careful how much you give!}, “painful transformations” {it really never gets less painful, still more wisdom is gained, so it’s worth it}; “anxious and loner feelings” — “misunderstood”. Yep. Every single day.

      My mother and my 1st (and really only friend as a child) both had prominent Virgo and Pisces placements.
      We were all super co-dependent with each other.
      My mother was the type to let people walk all over her, yet was very devoted, loyal, and a super-perfectionist when it came to herself.
      Worked hard for whatever “the boss” offered; didn’t think subconsciously she deserved much.
      Didn’t help she was a woman raised by 50s-minded parents.

      Sun/Moon/Pluto conjunct 29 degree of Virgo.
      Venus and Mercury in Libra.
      Leo rising…
      She just wanted to be loved!

      My friend was very nerdy, shy, and
      I have completely forgotten his birthday, all these years later.
      I do know his mom always made him throw a big party (she had no idea who he really was as a person).
      He really didn’t like to make a big deal about anything.
      Felt like he was embarrassed to be alive.
      But some time in mid-March.

  12. amiannAnon

    So I’m just saying in the previous comment that I think this article is biased. It takes into account silly things like feeling oversexed as a Venus in Scorpio, despite the fact that it’s actually a loyal aspect.

    As well, it misses a lot of opportunities to discuss how ‘squares’ and hard aspects are things you can work through to eventually get success later on, even if it’s not earlier in life.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I hear you, Anon. I am not saying you don’t have some points but I try to say things as directly as I can because that is what I like. The current climate is suffused with political correctness. One can never say things straight out. When I was learning Astrology, I resented going to websites which would not take a stand but called everything some version of mush. I reach out to the person who is like I am and like things said directly. With that being said, I don’t think people can actually work out squares. I think they have to work around them. I do think Venus in Scorpio feels that he is over sexed. Some people have admitted this to me. Others have not but I still do believe it lol

      1. amiannWinter

        Here’s the thing: I have Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Virgo. My Venus is in my 12th house. I have mostly squares in my chart (even to my North Node and Chiron). I have Venus square Neptune. I have struggled all of my life. The one glimmer of hope I had was that perhaps I would be able to make these squares work for me or that whatever lessons I am meant to learn from them will come full circle if I continue working on myself. Your fatalistic viewpoint of not only Virgo but squares means that for someone like me, there is nothing to work around. Most of my personal planets are in Virgo and my other personal planet of Mars is in Sagittarius, thereby squaring every remaining personal planet. I have no hope. I was just given the bad end of the stick upon my birth and it’s not even (according to you) to a productive end, I am just screwed and must get used to the fact that in this life, I am meant to feel nothing but pain. So then what is the point? If I am incapable of transforming or working around (because working around is basically just running into another square), then what is my purpose here?

        1. amiannamiann Post author

          Well, that is a big question, Winter. The answer to that question all like it is for every person to find Jesus. That is the purpose of all of life. Hard things lead us to Him.

        2. amiannParys

          A site like this needs to be seriously evaluated at best for its validity. Seriously. FIRSTLY, let us start off with my mercury square Uranus and mercury square Neptune. Even though I’ve had mental illness before BOTH of those have served me well. I’m smart, I believe (I’ve been told by others that I am so hell, I guess it’s true), I’ve received many accolades and trophies, and my mind has taken me some places in life. Did I throw in there that the mental illness came from how I was treated as a child and not because my own mind reverted on itself and made me some crazy loon? My Mars and Moon in 12th is something that I’ve had to work with. The fact that my emotions are STIFLED because of this combination has actually served me very well. I’ve used to be an emotional hot mess and now, I’ve calmed down and chilled out. Venus in Aries has ALWAYS given me the tenacity to go after what (or who) I want and finally gave me the gall to speak up for myself due to my moon and Mars in 12th as a youth (not speaking up for myself). Let us get with the squares. I have SEVEN main square impacts in my chart (and those are just main, I’m not talking about other aspects and contra parallels and all of that either). Yes they are work and they definitely get me in to some slippery situations, but I’ll be damned if someone tells me that “oh you can’t really get over a square and you have to find Jesus because this is the only help that you’ll get” (lacking tact and reasoning there I see). Not to mention, my Virgo is in 3rd and has my Part/Lot of Fortune. Jupiter is also in 3rd, but a piece of my 3rd house has been overthrown with Libra. Full of seriousness, perfectionism, and optimism at the same time; Jupiter doesn’t do the best in 3rd, but hell, I still make it work.

          My advice to you is this: it’s your page I get it, but people seriously look to these charts for guidance and understanding. Telling someone that they aren’t going to get over something, like how that person above was essentially told by your article, and then to drag religion in to the matter is not professional for one, and for two, it’s like you’re promoting, in some sense, for people to have no hard aspects or to essentially fear them to some degree.

          To the person above, listen, you CAN get over your issues with some assistance from yourself and digging deep within. What people DONT realize is that the squares give you character. Ever see someone just as nice and friendly and then look at their chart? Yeah, I have…mainly trines, and sextiles….easy aspects. Hard doesn’t always mean doom and gloom, it means that you were incarnated in to this life to build character and be the best that you can be for yourself and others.

          I would suggest to leave a page like this alone and find articles with those placements that will hand off substantial information that you can trust. How I do that is I take an aspect, like let’s say my Saturn Square Pluto, and I’ll take that to literally 10 different (trusted) sites and then compare the content. The factors that overlap between the majority are what pass as having the most validity. I sincerely hope that this will teach you on what is out there and what to avoid.

          Why did I come here? For curiosity. I wish that I hadn’t, to be honest, but I think that I was meant to find you, so that you can hear this message. I hope that this finds you.

  13. amiannNick

    grrrr… you should have included Pluto in the 7th, 12th house planets arnt that bad.. I express them pretty well, sun and mercury, The fantasy life piece had me cracking up, Its fun fantasizing !

  14. amiannLu

    I have moon and venus in scorpio, and I can tell for myself about it.
    It’s very hight to handle, the sexuality really screaming out, intense feelings, so intense that there are moments you just can’t think in nothing but just on it… Of course, my lilith in the MC no helps so much too…
    For a conservative person like I’m, with my sun cunjucts sun, is very difficult admit it, but it is the way it is, and I feels ashamed about it, but can’t help it, just the way it works.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Welcome Paisley

      I allow for 2 in a conjunction. I will fudge it to 3. I allow for 1 in other aspects–trine, square etc
      Some people only accept exact, so there is a lot of difference in points of views out there.

  15. amiannMaryAnn

    My son has a Capricorn Ascendent. Actually he is very nice looking. Does not have a bony nose. I would say his coloring is a little darker. He gets a great tan. Leo Sun in 8 th house. Scorpio Moon
    which I agree is very intense.

    1. amiannMaryAnn

      I just noticed my son with a Capricorn Ascendent has Saturn and Mercury conjunct in Virgo trine his Ascendent. Very intelligent, spoke at a very young age. Funny he was like an old man in a child’s body. Big baby not bony at all. Ripped the cartilage in his knee accident. Always in the dentist office.

    2. amiannamiann Post author

      I did not mean to say the person was not nice looking, Mary Ann. Tom Petty has a Cappy ASC and a Libra Moon conj Libra Venus and he is sooo gorgeous. I was trying to desctibe the pure traits of the ASC but they are always mitigated by other factors in the chart.

  16. amiannLaura

    What about Nessus on the DC or in the 7th? I’m puzzled over that one. I look for an abusive partner?? I have it conjunct my DC and conjunct my Psyche (both in very late 6th house, right on the DC). Dejaneira’s in the 4th, happens to be exactly conjunct my ex’s Saturn, and his Saturnian ways are definitely part of what drove me away.

  17. amiannLaura

    Also funny is he is a very late Sagg ASC (28 or 29 degrees), so most of his 1st house is CAP and he is naturally very skinny and has a big hook nose!

  18. amiannLaura

    My nephew was born last week with his descendant conjunct nessus and dejanira by 1° (both retro) What would that indicate? I feel worried.
    X

  19. amiannLesley Jackson

    Hi, I have dejanira conjunct the moon in Leo, orb of degrees and the moon is conjunct, orb 6 degrees Pluto. I have no recollection of being sexually abused although I can remember older boys doing things to me but not in a big way. I don’t class myself as being abused.

  20. amiannWim

    old post but here it comes…

    6… Mars in Pisces in 12th, male (My parents had no knowledge of English but a distinct sense of humor when they called me… Wim-py… ) Sun in 5th in Leo compensates a bit… It’s a blessing on the dance floor, everywhere else a curse…
    14… The male-female differences driven to the extreme:
    – Sun sq. Moon, Leo Sun sq. Taurus Asc. ; Venus sq Mars; Jupiter sq Saturn; Uranus sq Neptune… and for good measure Sun sq Neptune, Vesta; Moon sq Uranus and Chiron; Vesta sq Chiron and Saturn sq Pluto…

  21. amiannShai

    Scorpio nessus in the 12th. I’m very aware of my behavior, so I’ve never been abusive. But my nessus conjuncts my North Node. 🙁 Does this mean abuse my entire life? My Juno is in Scorpio in the 12th, relating to spousal abuse I think. And yes, my fiance was an abusive narcissistic sociopath, who did abuse me while I was PREGNANT.

  22. amiannAelita

    Hi Ami,

    I’ve read many of your articles & think they’re awesome. I’ve got 3 of these, & have unfortunately been struggling with them my whole life…

    #1 – My Mercury is retrograde 4 degrees in the 9th house of ♏, conjuncting my 29 degree Sun in the 9th house of ♎. Although I’m not sure if that would be considered combust. Your description is spot on. I always take things too personally, & feel like my ego gets easily bruised.

    #14 – My Venus is in the 9th house of ♎, & squares my Moon in the 1st house of ♒. Also I have Saturn in the 7th house of ♋, which also squares my Venus in the 9th house of ♎. This has been the WORST, HARDEST, & most unbearable of all for me.

    #24 – My ASC is in ♑, and I have been also struggling with self-esteem issues of how I look (stemming from a badly broken nose during childhood which was later fixed, but still bothers me).

    Aelita

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      WHat a darling person you are, A. I am so glad you wrote and so glad you are part of my website! Your combust is not really one, so you are fortunate there but other aspects may make you sensitive such as hard moon aspects. I want to send you a big hug. Your kind words made my day!

  23. amiannAlin

    As my mecury conjunct sun, MC and true lilith. All of them opposite jupiter
    Chiron conjunct northnode and ASC the south node conjunct saturn:
    ->all mecury, sun, MC, JUPITER and true lilith square CHIRON, the node, saturn and ASC
    In my natal, neptune and uranus also square moon.
    These are the 1,3,14,20 in your list.

      1. amiannAlin

        I think i can tell you i know what are listed in conscience with good and bad labels :))), inspite of the fact that i think there is no right or wrong. Right and wrong, with me, like the law, were decided by human. Rarely did i appraise any one who have no connections with me and even with acquaintances. If they make me angry, hate, shy…i will just have the felling(ok,im human). Well, i think true and false in math is fine.
        I have:
        Sun 17°14, mecury 14°35, MC 8°1, truelilith12°1, p fort 25°1 -cancer
        Jupiter12°10, neptune 26°37 -capricorn
        Asc 8°11, chiron 9°0, North node 12°19, pallas 22°34 -libra
        Saturn 7°19, juno10°29 -aries
        Mars 18°41, venus 12°39 -gemini
        Pluto 0°37, ceres 2°20 -sagittarius
        Moon in 4°5 taurus and uranus 3°14 aquarius
        Well, most of chart are conjunctions and squares
        I have boyfriend who has pivotal square too. He has moon and mars in virgo, venus and pluto in scorpio. Sun and mercury conjunct in capricorn. We have a relationship but nolove. He seems to be fine (he is not gay, never had a girl before me – @@ can you believe?)

  24. amiannSage

    Moon in 12th, stellium in 12th house(libra sun moon mercury), Cancer Jupiter squaring Libra sun moon mercury, and opposing a Capricorn mars,and mercury in retorgrade combusting the sun in the 12th.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Each one would have a different meaning, Deja, but pain would be associated with the THEME of the asteroid. If it were Lilith, it would be pain around sexuality. I should write an article on it, Deja.

        1. amiannamiann Post author

          I have one already, K. this was gonna be a Part Two. Please, put the title in the search engine and you will get the Part One and Welcome!

  25. amiannLou

    LOL I have Mercury square Neptune (not mental ill as far as I know….but can tell for sure it blurs my hability to stay real sometimes), Sun conjunct Saturn and all my personal planets in Virgo. I´ve got a lot of Saturn in my chart though. This makes me stay on earth. I´d add to the list Moon opp/square Saturn. It´s excruciatingly painful. A wounded Moon that´s difficult to heal.
    Great article!

      1. amiannLou

        Yes, totally. My mother was emotionally unavailable and rejected me. Memories of childhood are really painful. My dad wasn´t in the picture either due to abandonment. It´s 4º opp.

  26. amiannHolly

    Hi I think you would really cringe at my chart, 2nd house sun pluto vulcan moon, venus, north node, all stellium with the last four square mars on the cusp of the 12th house. also mars inconjuct saturn.

    1. amiannHolly

      chiron is also opposite sun and pluto and vulcan. Lilith is conjunct my asc ,opposite saturn, saturn is opposite my asc in the seventh house

  27. amiannJos

    No. 16.cant be more wrong
    Aries sun, moon – pluto opposition, venus, mercury. I like to dominate in sex. maybe due the pluto moon, very passionate and everything goes, very experimental.I never had complaints. I mostly click with moon in scorpio woman due our mutual depth and intensity equal. I sense them from miles away. I am falling for them for they sensual and ultra feminine nature, the sex is amazing

  28. amiannraffielle

    Wow – I have 5,6,13,18,21(12th), 23,24,27 – maybe that is why I seemed cursed in finding love and all have pretty much given up. I am a wondering if you could elaborate about number 18 for me, as I have Venus, Uranus & Pluto (all within 5 degrees of each other) in the 8th house Virgo. There is talk about combustion between two planets what about three I have yet to find anything on this.

  29. amiannAnna Gracey

    I wonder if these expects are just as bad in a progressed chart as well? or it relates only to the natal one? Progressed mercury squares progressed Uranus for example (well not much of a difference between pr or natal Uranus anyways) would have the same hard meaning (probable mental illness) or it is not as bad according to you?

  30. amiannRebeca Eigen

    BTW, you did a great job. I would add one more. Moon opposite Pluto in a man’s or woman’s chart. They EVOKE power struggles and excess emotional battering and blame it on everyone else.

  31. amiannTj

    Biggest nonsense I have read. I have Chiron conjunct ascendant and at 60 have never been bullied once in.my life. Lets leave such readings to real astrologers.

  32. amiannalex

    Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value
    Sun Sextile Neptune 4°33′ 75
    Sun Square Lilith 0°52′ -116
    Sun Trine Asc node 0°42′ 100
    Moon Opposition Mars 8°25′ -71
    Moon Trine Uranus 1°25′ 129
    Moon Trine Ascendant 3°21′ 30
    Mercury Conjunction Venus 5°17′ 258
    Mercury Sextile Mars 5°54′ 5
    Mercury Sextile Jupiter 1°58′ 122
    Mercury Square Pluto 7°52′ -1
    Mercury Sextile Lilith 2°39′ 62
    Venus Sextile Jupiter 3°18′ 140
    Venus Sextile Saturn 4°09′ 88
    Venus Square Pluto 2°35′ -70
    Venus Square Ascendant 7°04′ -11
    Mars Conjunction Jupiter 7°52′ 141
    Mars Square Neptune 6°56′ -16
    Mars Trine Lilith 3°14′ 32
    Mars Square Asc node 3°05′ -46
    Jupiter Conjunction Saturn 7°27′ 92
    Jupiter Square Neptune 0°56′ -62
    Jupiter Trine Lilith 4°38′ 4
    Jupiter Square Asc node 4°47′ -16
    Saturn Square Uranus 4°51′ -41
    Uranus Trine Ascendant 1°56′ 28
    Neptune Opposition Asc node 3°51′ -12
    Pluto Opposition Ascendant 4°29′ -11

    can u please tell me which aspects are bad for me by the way i am new to this astrology stuff but i do know somewhat of it

  33. amiannKitty

    I would have to disagree with you with the first house stuff pertaining to Neptune in the 1st this makes a person very self sacrificing not selfish, almost to the point where they can lose themselves, and I’m a Scorpio Rising and rather boney Gemini sun as well I am short and skinny

  34. amiannDianne

    Hi Ami,
    Hope you are okay. Can you help me to see if I will find a career I will like? I have been searching and learning things and nothing. I have my natal chart. I analyzed the houses, signs, planets, and aspects of the career area. I studied Journalism but I’m not a writer or speaker. I’m more of a doer. I found that I can be my own boss but I need to find a community or something I can do.
    Pluto square mc
    Sun opposite mc
    True node opposite mc
    Chiron semisextile mc
    Uranus Biquintile mc
    Mars Sesquiquadrate mc
    Mercury Quincunx mc
    Neptune Quincunx mc

    Thanks

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Hi Dianne

      This question would take my doing an entire chart. There would be no way I could answer it from this list. If you want to ask me the meaning of one aspect, I will try to help

  35. amiannSomebody

    Nessus 12th house conjunct virgo asc here, now obsessively scanning interactions for evidence that I’m an abuser who doesn’t know it. D:)

  36. amianndanshawen

    i have to disagree with the 15th and 20th. i’ve known a mercury conjunct uranus who was very perverted, diabolical and mentally ill the best way to put it. it doesn’t need the square. actually the most mentally ill and destructive, chaotic person ever known so far. this is because he was unevolved. if the person is more evolved then it would be positively inventive/creative not depraved or sadistic.

    jupiter aspects besides sun and mercury or to transpersonal planets seem to make the person aggrandizing, overly sexual, prone to megalomania (even mental illness) and have poor boundaries as in no respect for others as well as amoral or immoral type. i don’t think you need three or more. just one will do such as moon or especially venus conjunct jupiter. the person who raped me and was most abusive and i ‘ve known many abusive people throughout llfe, he was the worst monster of all. albeit also ones genetics and level of evolution also plays a part too level of contributory assholery but it’s not true you need the extreme aspects or more of them for it to rear it’s ugly head. he was also very much a religious bigot too.

  37. amiannJanay Matthews

    Hi Ami Anne. I have Jupiter conjunct my Descendant, Jupiter opposition my Ascendant, Jupiter square Sun, and Jupiter square Mercury. What does this mean so far?

  38. amiannJanay Matthews

    Ok. I have Jupiter squaring my Sun and Mercury. My Sun and Mercury are one house apart. Jupiter only aspects those 2 planets in my case.

  39. amiannJanay Matthews

    Thank you I can be too open and honest about revealing myself and taking on more tasks than expected. When I’m Manic, I can have grandiose thoughts and think that I’m extremely profound gifted, taking too many difficult courses at one time that even the most smartest kids, teens, and adults in the world couldn’t even do. There’s a difference between optimism and being delusional. I should be grateful just to be gifted and don’t take on tasks that I can’t realistically handle. Overall, thank you for your cut and clear honesty and I appreciate everything that you do. I’m really am enjoying the articles. I like tropical, vedic, and sidereal astrology because you need to see yourself from all views and angles to get a true representation of your soul evolution and character development. You and astrologer IQ are amazing.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      You have a hard chart. Is Jesus your Lord and Savior? Did you tell me he was? If so, this is all that really matters, Janay. This life is short and eternity is long <3

  40. amiannJanay Matthews

    Yes, I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior. If I had the $350 right now, I can give you all my birth details but I have to save up money every month until at least close to the beginning of spring 2019 or if I see a sudden jump in my finances before then. Anyways, I have a dynamic splash chart that balances itself out with the easy and challenging aspects. With all 10 planets, nodes, and some basic asteroids I have just about every shape like 3 kites, grand trine, imperfect star of david, castle, mystic rectangle, 3 yods, 2 t-squares, and a grandcross. You can even look at my natal charts on my Facebook page under my sidereal astrological photo album section. They are in sidereal astrological format. Its the same as tropical astrology but the signs are pushed back 23 degrees and it deals with the constellations in the sky. Yep I faced a lot of challenges in life and I barely made it to freedom. I’m happy to have a fresh start and get the resources that I need to stay healthy and thrive.

      1. amiannJanay Matthews

        I’m so very glad to have Jesus in my life and I know that he can do anything. He brought me through a lot of things and kept me alive when others including me wanted to give up on myself. I’m eternally grateful for God’s love and grace and for the gift of life. I should take nothing for granted. A birth chart is still helpful to honestly learn about yourself and use the gifts that God gave you so you can help, inspire, give others compassion and show them God’s love.

      1. amiannJanay Matthews

        Yep. I especially like men who come from different cultures and countries including my own and I like that we can be so open minded and philosophical on a lot of things. These guys make me more happy of my african ancestry, what our ancestors accomplished and overcame, and the different hair textures in our ethnicity, making us so diverse. This planet is diverse overall and I can’t wait until I travel to other places one day.

  41. amiannMonique

    I have many of the above “difficult” aspects listed (asc conjunct chiron, moon in 12th, moon in Virgo, pretty much all personal planets in hard aspect to my north node, pretty full 1st house, as well as Chiron in my 12th house), and while I agree that they are quite difficult – painful – they are even more REWARDING and EMPOWERING once you learn what You need to learn in order to UNLOCK the power of that aspect so that it can be expressed and given.

    I was wondering if you could give me some insight on my Chiron square Lilith/ Lilith conjunct MC in Cancer. There is not much on the web in regards to these aspects, so any insight would be much appreciated!

    Thank you!

    PS: Love your blog!

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Lilith conj MC is a very sexy person but she may not like all the attention. Chiron sq Lilith could be pain with sexuality, maybe due to abuse or just being kind of shut down/fearful of one’s body, in general.Thank you for your sweet comment and Welcome Monique!

  42. amiannJanay Matthews

    Hi Ami Anne. With my above comment, I was exaggerating about my school experience and that even though I maybe still gifted I still shouldn’t take courses out of my range and overload my schedule being to eager and overhungry for knowledge. I had to know my limits and about failure so I don’t make the same fatal consequences in the future. My college was no highly gifted school and it was lot’s of thick books with massive amount of problems and facts. It is true, I do need to manage my money and budget better and find more jobs and resources to boost my skills and income. I can’t keep on whining and complaining, having outbursts when some tells me a truth that I don’t like and for me to grow. I do have Jupiter square Sun and Mercury, Sun square Ascendant, and Jupiter opposition ascendant. Another t-square that I have is Mars Square Venus and Neptune, and Venus opposition Neptune. From this some astrologists especially truth in aspect astrology jewels, dark star astrology, TheAs57, and online articles think that I’m an arrogant, egocentric person who wants to been seen as God or a saint when I do good deeds then I wander why people throw my kind deeds or gifts back in my face. With my other t square, they think that I can be selfish and aggressive in love and relationships, whine, mope, yell, act defensive, and guilt trip people when I feel I’m not appreciated for my kind acts, and that I only see my lovers through rose color glasses giving them qualities that they do not possess which is not always unconditional love. Overall my approach can really be self-centered and this can lead to a lack of empathy and consideration for others. This is hard to hear but it’s a pill to swallow for me to wake up and get it together.

  43. amiannKate

    Thank you!!! Great list! 😊unaspected moon in cancer here. You’re right. I’m nurturing everybody, yet I end up getting hurt.

  44. amiannCarla

    My 12th house Leo Mars opposes a 6th house Sun/Saturn one degree conjunction. Both are also squared by a 9th house Moon in Taurus at the midheaven and Neptune in Scorpio. My father was an abusive alcoholic and mother was hardworking, non drinker, and very religious. I have worked from a very young age and do not have an alcohol or drug addiction. However, I am a people pleaser with a servant’s heart, who prefers peace at all costs, so having the courage to stand up for myself has been a lifelong process. I do have a Trine involving Moon and Mercury and a sextile involving a Pisces Jupiter. I am 56. My goal is to somehow make a difference before I am gone, and to be a strong role model for my 5 granddaughters.

  45. amiannPaige

    i have mercury square uranus and mercury square neptune and i have pretty severe mental illness. i also have a capricorn moon though, cap IC with a hard family life, sun square uranus with the classic absent/dangerous father story, an 8th house stellium and 4th house moon 12th house mars. a lot of water. but it’s more depression. i’ve been suicidal most of my life. i would say more than actual mental illness i have a complex about it. i always sense deeply that i could fall off the deep end if pushed too hard or get too spaced out. i have a pisces south node so i get really perturbed when i lose time in stressful situations or lose touch with reality. i would not do well isolated. cool article, thanks for it.

  46. amiannMirrorMirror

    Algol/Medusa/isis conjunct sun and stellium in the twelfth house with Capricorn Moon,ASC and Neptune also conjunct Vega. I’m not a Charles Manson— I am told how scary and dark my eyes and stare can be. I guess it’s the evil eye aspect of algol(binary blinking star) and Medusa (stare that turns individuals to stone). Whilst I dont have a real penchant for murder or mayhem, I am definitely a schadenfreude in that I get a perverse pleasure from others misfortunes. Also, I’m an identical mirror twin, which mirrors algol being a binary. Just like the silvery tongued devil, I have a way or gift, of using linguistics to instill fear in situations where brute force is a potentiality which in turn, diffuses said situation without my needing to do a thing other than speak.

  47. amiannXanthippe

    Capricorn asc “bony and haunted appearance, the person may feel sensitive about how they look”
    Monica Bellucci has cap in her asc.
    And she looks like the most beautiful woman in the universe.

  48. amiannMichele

    Jesus, the man I love has a 12th house stellium – Pluto, Mars and Uranus. His Mars is in Virgo. I also have Mars in the 12th in Gemini.

    My previous relationship was an 18. yr marriage to a triple Scorpio (Sun, Moon, Mercury plus Neptune and North Node). Mars in Pisces, Sag Asc. Had double life the whole 18 years and took me 10 years to figure it out. I can’t begin to describe the nightmare since he was gaslighting me so relentlessly. Good times.

    Looks like I did a lateral trade, maybe?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      You really need to see how you and he go together in terms of the synastry before you judge, my Friend. I am sorry about the other guy. Yikes–all that Scorpio and a weak Mars.

      1. amiannAnthony

        Great… lol and it’s all Opposite Mars and square Uranus, Saturn conjunction. I’m a 88 baby when Uranus and Saturn were conjunct in Sag.
        I haven’t been abused. I do attract aggressive women though.

  49. amiannStephy

    I disagree with no.10’s ‘self-oriented’ statement. many planets such as pluto, saturn and mars can be indication of being abused, crisis, low self-esteem. Plus, the zodiac sign in the first will speak a different story, like zodiac signs which are not self-oriented.

  50. amiannMichele

    “It is very hard to deal with any 12th House planet, let alone 3 or more.”

    I fell pretty hard for a man but kept feeling like he was hiding something from me. He would immediately get defensive if I said anything. Turns out, he has Mars, Uranus and Pluto in the 12th house. An added bonus – Venus in Sagittarius. I walked away even though I was in love with him – just couldn’t set myself up for that kind of failure. I still have to fight the urge to call him daily.

  51. amiannNighta

    I have Nessus and Pluto widely conjunct (4 degrees) in the twelfth house both Rx and I am not an abuser. I do agree with the fantasy life good/bad interp you wrote. I always wondered what was wrong with me when I caught myself imagining these scenarios in my head lol
    I feel like the Nessus Pluto conjunction is a carry-over from a past life which I can partly remember and have many times dreamt about. I was on the receiving end of a plethora of physical, emotional and psychological abuse. The lifetime was brutal. My intuition tells me this aspect correlates to that lifetime and doesn’t fuel a subconscious motivation for me to abuse. Perhaps because it’s retrograde but that’s my two cents

  52. amiannJustme

    Woowww I have Pisces Moon in 12th house. Fear of intimacy indeed but I do long for it like crazy. Also 7th house stelluim with Mercury, Jupiter and Saturn sitting there closely together and my Virgo Sun is opposite my ascendant Pisces(Sun conjunct Descendant) so you can call me Miss Co dependent. Guilty of feeling whole in a relationship with my partner and calling them “my everything” in the past. Learning to love myself and put myself first right now but still I don’t like being single 😩

  53. amiannMariska

    Virgo Moon, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn here.. I always questioned Mercury as the ruler of Virgo. You are the first who mentioned Chiron, and now things feel like falling into place!
    Thank you for thinking different!! It helped me! (Sorry for my English 😉

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