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The Worst Aspects For Sexuality In the Synastry

head in sandPeople google this topic so I will give my take on it. There are some people to whom we would not mate if he was the last man on earth and the species would become extinct. Lets talk about what repulses us in a person. I have to start with Moons, as they are one’s deepest heart. I do not think Moon square Moon can sustain a long term relationship. If it does, it is lacking. It is sad. It is missing a piece.

Moon oppose Moon is fine in a platonic relationship. In fact, I think it is excellent in a platonic relationship because each person brings an opposite perspective. This is wonderful with friends. However, if one takes this to lovers, there will be an essential piece missing, in my opinion. When one partner cries, the other will not know how to comfort him. There is a lack of simpatico due to the opposite Moons.

One may give an opposite  perspective but one will not give true heart. The true heart resonates on a different spectrum. Hence, there is angst. Hence, there is sadness and loneliness.  I don’t think a wonderful relationship can exist with Moon square or Moon oppose Moon. Can a relationship endure? Of course. Will it fill your heart. To me, the answer is NO.

Sexuality is from the head up, not the neck  down. Attraction may be fleeting but if there is no soul, it soon  becomes empty. It becomes vapid. It becomes sad. Hence, if one has an attraction and nothing else, one will be left with a sense of angst as if one has eaten a big meal but found it to be  cardboard. Any relationship is based on soul. Without soul, there is no music. There is no beat. There is no anything but the sacharrine music that plays on elevators.

Let’s leave Moons, for the moment. However, one can never truly leave Moons because without Moon connections, there is not much of anything but we need to move on. The worst aspects for sexuality would be the worst aspects for simpatico. These would include one of the partners shutting down the life passion/energy  of the other. This can be done in a number of ways. People can tear down the core of another. People can step on the love of another. People can diminish the shine of another. I will talk about all of these and how they erode relationships.

If one person’s Saturn squares another person’s Moon, the Saturn person may throw cold water on the sensitive feelings of the Moon person. We, all have sensitive feelings.  Even the toughest person hurts. Even the toughest person wants to be loved. Hence, when a Saturn is square a Moon, the Moon person feels as if he cannot measure up.  If you can imagine a father who chastises you when you get an A minus and not an A, that is how this aspect feels, in my opinion.

If a Saturn squares a Venus, one may feel as if one is not attractive enough. One may feel as if one is not pretty enough for the partner. The Saturn may transmit this message to the Venus person, without words, perhaps, but it will be transmitted. The Venus person may feel like she has to be perfect in order to be loved by the Saturn person. This hurts a great deal. I have been here, so can talk from personal experience. I am sure many of you have, too. Our topic is the worst aspects for sexuality. I think one can imagine that the above two aspects would put a terrible damper on passion. Hence, the worst aspects for sexuality are, always, the worst aspects. for simpatico.

I would be remiss if I did not talk about a nuclear sexuality. This would be Nessu/Deja. If one wants to hang from the light fixtures, one will do so with Nessus/Deja. One may go emotional and sexual  places one never thought one could. One may  touch feelings one never thought one could. However, will it last? My answer would be No. Is it worth it? My answer would be maybe.

I think Nessus/Deja relationships deepen you, as well as humble you. The most judgemental person  is the  one who has not been humbled. I have seen Nessus/Deja relationships take a proud person and put her in the dust. Hence, she does not judge the next person who comes along

Mars figures into sexuality. Mars is drive. For some Mars signs, another Mars sign will not work well. A Cancer Mars like me does not work with another Cancer Mars. Who would chase the other around the couch 😀  A Scorpio Mars is perfect for a Cancer Mars because he has get up and go. Also, a water sign would understand the workings of another water sign. Mars has to work well in the synastry for there to be attraction.

If there is a Mars square Mars or  a Mars oppose Mars, it may be too strident. If a Mars works well with a Sun, there can be a nice balance. For a Gemini Sun, an Aquarius Mars works well. Hence, we have an Air sun trine an Air Mars. There are many possible good placements for the Mars in synastry. In my real world examples( and the charts I have done), people seem to be attracted to the same Mars signs over and over.

I hope you have enjoyed this article and gotten something of value from it. I await your Comments, per usual!






49 thoughts on “The Worst Aspects For Sexuality In the Synastry

  1. amiannRainbow Cake

    Personally, the sq and opp are good aspects, but it’s the stubbornness that’s the problem, don’t blame it on the aspects.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I am talking about simpatico here. I do not think Moon sq Moon would have simpatico. I don’t think it could happen and this aspect would define the chart for lovers.

      I do not think Moon oppose Moon would have enough simpatico for lovers/Partners. It would for friends. Many of my friends seem to have opposite Moons( Cappy Moon) I admire this Moon because it is coldly rational.

      I learn a lot from these people and secretly wish I could have some of what they do. However, when it gets right down to it, they don’t understand me like Moon trine Moon or Moon conj Moon. This is effortless simpatico. That makes for soul and soul makes for passion,. Capiche 😀

      Now, you write your reasoning out like that and we can have dueling reasoning. Boy, I wish I could post songs.

      Anyway, I will do titles.

          1. amiannamiann Post author

            Well, I stand with the Moon squares and the Moon oppositions as stated. Hey, you could not get along with a Scorpio Moon conj Sun and you are a Leo Moon so point taken 😀

        1. amiannRainbow Cake

          Aww I think that you shouldn’t be stuck if you don’t want to, but from what I see you’re going to be stuck for the next few years babe. I can’t wait too long. As soon as my wings are developed I’m going to soar. Time waits for no man 🙂

          1. amiannamiann Post author

            I do mean that. My Deja/Child conjuncts your Moon,exact. It will always be warm and sweet like children at play but not in this lifetime and I don’t believe in reincarnation, so Farewell,old friend xx

          1. amiannamiann Post author

            It is true, you. Anyway, I have so much to do, today. I am making a juice. I have to water my garden, finish the weeding, plant purple turnips and on and on

  2. amiannLon Spector

    How about the Mars and Venus placements?
    Mars in an air sign wouldn’t get down to the “animal basics” would they?
    They would be so busy “beating AROUND the “bush,” that they would never
    place IT inside the bush! That would be extremely frustrating for a perspective
    partner with Mars in a fire sign.
    Or, how about Venus in a water sign? If the other person had Venus in a fire
    sign, it would be the classic Sociopath/Empath abusive relationship.
    The Sociopath, (Fire Venus) would rob the Empath (Water Venus) blind
    figeratively and literally and then disgard her.
    Do you believe the old addage that “There’s someone for EVERYONE?” Or, can
    you tell by looking at an individual chart that the person’s chances of finding
    intamacy with another person are “slim and none?” Are some charts so
    “radioactive” that you’d place money that the person would die alone and
    unloved? Would you have the courage to tell them that? Or, would you hold off
    because you wouldn’t want to be responsible for a client’s sucide?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      That overt sexual talk does not sound like you, Lon. This website must be a bad influence on you 😀

      I think you are asking about yourself and I think God can give you the desires of your heart xx

  3. amiannMoonChild

    From my personal experience, Ami, I say yes to what you have mentioned.

    Had great understanding on many levels, yet tremendous loneliness, and it was a relationship that never was (except for the Pluto conj Moon, which made me linger long time on it – virtually the romance was non-existent)

  4. amiannEva

    I do agree with your opinion on moon square moon Ami,
    I had a experience with this aspect in synastry with someone I loved deeply, we had wide square It was 10 degrees but it was noticeable. Despite deep feelings there was some kind of void which I always felt on soulmate level, our relationship didn’t survive. It lasted 10 years but it wasn’t smooth ride. True love relationship can not survive challenges if there is no soulmate connection I guess. You can have chemistry with many other people too but to find someone who’s soul connects with yours is harder.

  5. amiannLon Spector

    Well perhaps I’ve developed an “If-you-can’t-beat-em-join-em,” view
    point about the topics you present.
    There’s no possible way that people are going to change their attitude
    about sex, because for many, that’s they only reason they want to live,
    and many WOULD kill themselves if they awoke one day and found they
    couldn’t have it. Did you ever see the film “Miss Lonely Hearts?” Sex is for
    STIMULATION, Hugh Hefner said that sex is one of the things that makes this
    world less of a “vail of tears.” You have only to surf the net to see all the MISERY
    associated with sex. It’s a NEED like food. And people OBJECTIFY sex like food.
    It’s probably the single greatest NEED that the human has after oxegyn!
    In a marriage, if the sex is bad it’s the #1 problem. Once that problem is resolved,
    it drifts down to number 3 or 4.
    All I know is, I never asked to be born in the flesh, and have fleshly cravings, and
    have this NON STOP SUCESSION OF FILTH beamed at me! Beam me up Scottie!
    There simply is NO ETICAL WAY for a Christian to have sex outside of marriage!
    Was your son taught that? I completely simpathasise with the struggles he went
    through, and APPLUADE his COURAGE in taking the only path open to him!
    That two-bit Jeezable slut that drove him to the act is probably doing it with
    everyone/thing in sight!
    And BTW, that twerking tramp, 20 year old Miley Cyrus who you admire so much
    because she performed in Irsael, is now WITH CHILD by a black father.
    I’m sure Billy Ray is VERY PROUD!

  6. amiannEva

    I really don’t mind people with different opinions, it is good to look at something from different perspective BUT if someone start to be verbally (or physically) abusive just because he disagree with what you say that’s not sign of intelligence to me. No one is pushed to read and stay on your site or blogs so if someone doesn’t like it here why he is always coming back.
    Just remember if someone is trying to pull you down it is because he is already bellow you.
    Have a nice day girl 🙂

  7. amiannLon Spector

    I”m not trying to harm the site all, but I do have my suspiscions about
    where Eva originated from. Lets just say that Eva is NOT an adherent
    of “Christian Astrological Psychics.”

  8. amiannEva

    I am just ordinary person and I wrote what I wrote because I simply didn’t like how rude was RC to Ami. I just couldn’t hold myself. That’s all.

      1. amiannEva

        my comment under number 7. I think Lon thought it was about him so that’s why he wrote his comment about me I guess. Or then I don’t know why, anyway it doesn’t matter, I don’t mind. Lets don’t complicate it more 🙂

  9. amiannLon Spector

    I owe you an apology. There’s another Eva on another website and she
    knows I post here. The people on the other website think I am a troll, and
    have vowed to reveal the things I have posted here, because they want me
    off their website.
    Thus far, I can still get on the website. I know my days are numbered there
    because my postings foster such outrage. I haven’t yet tried to go on it today,
    so I don’t know if I’m still allowed on.
    As you know, I’ve only known how to use a computer for a little over a year, so I
    don’t know the social “rules.” I’ve discovered that the internet isn’t very
    I grew up with talk radio, that allows a diversity of opinion. If you didn’t like
    what a caller had to say, you could either snap the radio off, or you could
    phone in and refute the caller with facts. Unless a person was using profanity,
    they were allowed their say no matter how contraversal. It never occurred to me
    that people could oust a person simply because they didn’t like the content of
    his opinions.
    The level of animosity is increadible! It never would have occurred to me that
    “responsible” people could say such things. I continued to post because it’s only
    “words” afterall, and it wasn’t like these banshees were in the same room with me.
    I come from a generation where to be bullied meant that the bully had to be right
    in front of you. I can’t fathom “internet” bullying, or why anyone would take their
    own life over it, but then again I’m not on social media and they have no real way
    to hurt me-none that I know of anyway, but then you get into that 12th house
    “hidden enemy” stuff. Who knows what they can do now?
    I feel that if people bar my opinions, it’s like segreating me, and telling me I am
    unwelcome on their turff. I won’t WILLINGLY accept that though there’s nothing
    I can do if it happens.
    I’m not a “Troll” of any type, because a troll would go the extra mile in destroying
    a site. I limit my posts to one a day, IF I can get on that is.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      That is sweet of you, Lon. I get attacked all the time on the internet. On FB, I have people attack me and other places,too. I ignore, most of the time.

    2. amiannEva

      your apology is accepted. I didn’t take personally what you wrote, I knew it was some kind of misunderstanding and I am glad all is clear now 🙂

  10. amiannLon Spector

    Well, talk radio is far from perfect. The things the host says CAN irritate you.
    But the point is, it should be a free exchange of ideas. It shouldn’t be
    “cliqueish,” like the net is.
    Coming to the net so late in life, I would never have BELIEVED that so much
    anger and HATRED could be in one place! The folks say: “Go away! You are
    unwelcome!” “It’s a big net. Find a site that reflects your beliefs or start a blog of
    your own.”
    This would be very difficult for me to do. I am a little bit on the lazy side. (I’m a
    Turaus) and I like things VERY simple. The need to register keeps me off many
    forums. Also, I was advised by realitives who knew the computer, to never chat
    with people in “real time.” They heard about the terror stories of criminals reeking
    halvock through the net. It seems that everyone uses the computer for certain
    functions, but few use it for ALL the functions it can do.
    I never actually expected to have the use of a computer. It was my father’s
    decision to get it. He was waiting on my elder brother to get him one, but my
    brother kept putting him off. So finally as a result of boredom he got one. This is a
    special computer designed just for old folks. They have a control center that helps
    you out, if you run into difficulties. Even with the “help” it took me a while to learn
    the simplist things. I have never been mechincally inclined. And with Uranus in the
    12th house, (Uranus governs Aquarus, which governs computers) it was very
    frustrating. I felt like quitting many times. I still can’t get E-mails out, because I
    can’t get the scroll line. I’ve decided to live without E-mails unless it’s a very
    important matter, in which case I call for help.
    It doesn’t surprise me that people are being “watched” on the computer. With all
    the recent relevations about “Big Brother,” I knew many years ago that certain
    people were being watched. I’ve been being watched at least since the day after
    9/11. I’ve mentioned this on other sites. For all intents and purposes, we are
    living in a dictatorship NOW.

  11. amiannLon Spector

    I hope that you did check out and see
    if my love letter WAS published.
    Yes, I said love letter! She is all alone and unloved. Just as I have been alone
    and unloved! And Christ was alone and unloved!
    Jesus said “My God, my God, why has’t Thou forsaken me!”
    While undergoing crucification, Jesus Christ was the most unloved and most
    sinleaden Person in ALL history!
    If Jesus could handal Adolph Hitler’s sins, He could certainly handal Casey Anthony’s!

  12. amiannLon Spector

    Appearently, when you send out the post, it SEEMS to get printed, or at
    least it looks as though it WAS printed from your own computer screen.
    The other computers don’t see it as printed.
    I had written a couple of posts that I could see, but they said, “He hasn’t
    posted in two days. Isn’t that great?” Then they used the word “muting”
    as the description for a way for me to be tricked into THINKING the posts
    went through, but they couldn’t see them.

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