I have been ruminating on this topic for ten years. I have seen a certain configuration in the charts of client but I have seen it in my own relationship charts to know that it is very real, in my…
More Tidbits From a Lazy Girl Astrologer
I am sorry I have not written an article for some time.I have not answered the comments for some time. I am very, very sorry. I answered all of them, I think, and am here if you want to comment…
Ten “Bad” Asteroids Conjunct the North Node in the Natal Chart
First of all, if you know me, you know that nothing gets me angrier than people who only want “good news” when it comes to their charts. Look around, Dude. Not everything is good. I like to live in the…
The Hardest Aspects To Have in the Chart and WHY——Part Two

Let’s discuss the nature of hard aspects. Some conjunctions are hard aspects such as Uranus,Pluto and Neptune conjunctions.Some are not, such as Venus and the Moon aspects.The square presents a locked in kind of struggle. I picture two dogs with…
The Stages of a Nessus Relationship

I am both loved and hated for telling what I think about the nature of a Nessus relationship. First of all, my findings are based on doing charts. The charts and my clients teach me what I need to know.…
What Rings Your Bell——-Asteroid Conjunctions to the Descendant in the Natal Chart
What Rings Your Bell——-Asteroid Conjunctions to the Descendant The Descendant is an overlooked angle. It gives us information on that to which we are attracted in a partner. It, also, can reveal things that we do not accept in ourselves…
Five Aspects in Synastry For Attraction But No Lasting Staying Power
1. Lust(4386) Conjunct the Sun Both people may feel like they have been hit by the Hindenburg, but will it last? Not if this is the only aspect. 2. Cupido(763) Conjunct the Sun The Cupido person may act as if…
WHY Do Nessus and Dejaneria Relationships Feel Like They Will Kill Us?
I am someone people come to with obsessive relationships and ask why. Logically speaking, if one is an adult and feels one will die if a lover leaves, there must be something more than meets the eye. The Nessus/Dejaneria relationship…