I know this should be self evident. However, people may feel they are weak when they need other people. God made us this way. However, when does it become co-dependency? That is the hard question. Balances in life are not exact. Perhaps, one can never really find the balances while one is on the earth. Perhaps, one may approximate some, if one is lucky. I think that life does not work. One may think it does, when one is young, but as one gets older, being able to do “things right” becomes more elusive. Perhaps, there is ONLY the finding of God that is the doing it” right.”