Throw the tomatoes at me. Would you read my website, if I did not ask real questions? This question has been bugging me for awhile. Maybe because I am sicky sweet, at times. I have had my eagle eye on the topic for a year or so. My conclusion is that people don’t trust sicky sweet people. I don’t and I am like everyone else.
If you add the sicky sweet label to Christians, you have a whole new category. There is nothing that turns me off more than a sicky sweet Christian, but this label is not limited to Christians. I want to look at the general category of abused people, not the specific category of Christians, which is a whole other article.
My observation is that abused people get be sicky sweet. This applies to woman more than men. Men get hostile, more often.
Why do woman become sicky sweet? Because they want to be perfect. If they are perfect, no one will hurt them again, they reason. It is a logical reason, but will not play out. Actually, more people will hurt them, as they will have no defenses . Hence,the person will be re-abused, again and again. When this happens, the person can retreat from life or get harder./stronger. Being harder is good, not bad. The Bible tells us to be wise as serpents, gentle as doves.
A true gentle and sweet spirit has strength under it.
No. Women who get abused, ARE ‘sweet’ or kind (maybe TOO kind?) already. That’s why it’s easy to other people use them. What your real nature is, doesn’t really change. You should know that as a astrologer.
Btw, I think it’s quite tasteless to make these one-sided assumptions like “I don
Hi Sepalus
I hear what you are saying. My role, as an Astrologer, as I see it, is to be as honest as I can. I do not like political correctness in any way, shape or form. I feel that it is what is part of what is killing us as a nation( world) and as individuals. As such, I am not the right Astrologer for some people. I will tell it, as I see it, as honestly as I see it. I may be wrong and reserve the right to change my mind. However, truth is love imo. Truth is in very short supply, today.