Is one fated to be a victim, if one has a dominant Dejanira ? The answer would be no, in the same way that one is not fated to be an abuser with a strong Nessus. However, one will have to confront with the energy of the victim.I suppose Jung would call it the victim archetype. . If a person was abused, Dejanira will show up in a strong way. Was it that persons fault that she/he was abused? No, it is never a child’s fault.. Is it her fault, if she enters in to abusive relationships as an adult? I don’t think so because she has been programmed to repeat her past. Can it end? Yes, when she finds and embraces another paradigm.