When I do a professional synastry, I will spend up to a week on it. I don’t have financial pressures to meet. I can just enjoy your charts, get to know you and hopefully give you something very positive. Being able to spend this much time on a chart, I come to live and breathe the charts I do. I will have insights while I am watering my garden or standing in my kitchen looking out the window. I had such an insight into this synastry which I will share with you. Then, I will move onto aspects.
Dean seems to have an Unaspected Moon. Since we do not know time of birth, we do not know the exact Moon degree. However, his solitary Moon seems far away from most everything, so we are safe to assume it is Unaspected. The Unaspected Moon is the hardest Unaspected Planet. It is pure pain. I am a Cancer Moon, so family is very, very important to me. The Unaspected Moon is the most unmothered person in the Zodiac. This native lives in a shell of pain. He never had the comfort and nurture of a mother. Hence, he is the proverbial orphan. I started this series of articles with a negative comment about Dean. However, I take it back when I see this and my heart goes out to him. However, my insight was about Tori’s Saturn square his Mars/Pluto/Uranus conjunction. In simple terms, he is out of control and she has the task of reining him in. He is the bad boy and she is the stern parent. YIKES 🙁
Dean’s Unaspected Capricorn Moon
As I said YIKES. The Unaspected Moon makes one very, very sensitive a la Micheal Jackson. Think of his fragile demeanor. He was too gentle for this world. That is the case with any Unaspected Moon. If a native has a blustery exterior, don’t pay attention, he hurts a great deal and he feels a great deal. Know that and act accordingly. The person will appreciate you for it.
With Dean, he has the Moon in the Detriment, as well as being Unaspected. I really do not have words for how hard this aspect is. I have not read about his early home life but I can tell you that he felt like an orphan. He may not even admit it or be aware of it. Many of us are in denial of part or all of our lives. That is why I believe a chart over a self report. The chart never lies. However, let’s get back to the nature of the Capricorn moon.
Capricorn Moon is a cold Moon. It thinks and reasons where it should feel. It is very, very money oriented. It is the Moon most likely to marry for money. It is the Moon most likely to marry for financial or social gain. It is the Moon most able to choose head over heart in any situation. Many of my friends seem to be Cappy Moons. It is opposite my Cancer Moon. Hence, there is an opposites attract and an opposites help each other to see a different perspective. However, I would never marry a Cappy Moon. I do not want a robot where a heart should be. I know this sounds harsh. I exaggerate for purposes of teaching. There is a heart. However, it may not have the tenderness that some of us need. That is more of my point. Hence, in this single placement, we can understand the soul of Dean. He is unmothered. He feels like an orphan. That never goes away barring a miracle from God. His own heart is cold and he could marry for gain. I feel like I should add a caveat here. No one chooses his chart. Only God knows why we have our charts. Some are a great deal harder than others. After seeing this Unaspected Cappy Moon, my heart goes out to Dean.
Tori’s Saturn Square Dean’s Saturn/Chiron AND Mars/Pluto/Uranus Complex
This set of aspects is so big that I am choking down a gulp. Tori is in the position of being a fulcrum for a Dean going out of control. No one knows this when they meet and marry among the throes of passion. However, the chart does. I wish I could repeat that a thousand times! An Astrologer could have told them what would happen. I am very sad when I see a case when an ounce of prevention would be worth a pound of cure. Most of us can relate.
To put is simply. Saturn is the stern father. He tells you to rake all the leaves before you get your allowance. He tells you to eat your veggies before you get your dessert. He tells you to study hard in school, so you can go to a good college. He tells you to watch your reputation, so you don’t get labeled a @#%^. I think you get the point.
With Tori, she undertook the task of being Dean’s strict parent, unbeknownst to her. Perhaps, her life script, the unconscious pattern that is written in each of us, found it’s puzzle piece other. Perhaps, the same happened for Dean. I suspect it did. However, an Astrologer could have lit the path, even if they decided to take it, as most people who are foolish and in love do.
Tori’s Saturn square Dean’s Saturn/Chiron is a loaded aspect. It is loaded because of Dean’s Saturn/Chiron. Dean has the unenviable task of trying to climb out of pain. We don’t know the House of his Chiron, so don’t know the nature of his pain. However, we know that he lives it, breathes it, eats it and struggles to climb the summit of it. Saturn does promise us relief if we stick with it, but Dean is beset with one malady after another in a kind of comedy chart of errors. It feels very sad to say that but he has an extremely hard chart, in my opinion. This is through no fault of his own, of course.
Now that you understand Dean’s Saturn/Chiron, let’s talk about Tori’s Saturn squaring this. Saturn is the stern father. Tori will, most likely, not have sympathy for Dean. She will not understand his pain. At the beginning of a relationship, pain bonds us. We feel we have found our soul mate. However, the same pain can repel people. This seems to be the classic happening when Chiron is involved.
Let’s look at Dean’s Mars/Pluto/Uranus complex which is square Tori’s Saturn. Dean can be a hair trigger. I don’t know how else to say it but to say it. Tori will be called upon to tame him. This is the set up of the charts. The charts will not be violated. They will play out. God can overcome the charts but that is all. Barring this, one will live the verdict imposed by the dates of birth set in the stars.
I will stop this article here because there was so much in it. I know it is hard to read pages and pages of information, so I try to make it into smaller bites. I look forward to hearing from you, as usual!
I wonder what it is in your chart that draws you to Tori Spelling. I can usually pinpoint certain aspects that draw me towards different celebrities. When I drew up Dean’s chart, I used a 5:00 am birth, and it showed that he could have a trine with Pluto. Would that help him personally? Are there other moon aspects in a synastry chart for marriage that would indicate loneliness? I feel emotional loneliness in my marriage, as well. My Pisces moon is trine my husband’s Jupiter and MC, sextile his Saturn, and conjunct his Mercury, though. My sun is trine my ASC/Uranus conjunction, and my ASC is unaspected by him (the only aspect he makes to my sun is a square by his sun), so maybe that is the cause? My Venus is conjunct my husband’s Moon/Saturn/Mars stellium in Taurus…but maybe Saturn is causing the problem? I’m interested in marriage synastry…what brings us together and then pulls us apart.
You can put the synastry chart on my Forum, if you want, K. I know why I am attracted to Tori– no homo. She has good boundaries, it seems. She is very feminine but seems to have a strength w/out losing that femininity.
Oh, no, I didn’t mean to insinuate that you were “attracted” to her. I just mean that when I find a male or female celebrity that I like, I will do the synastry, and I can usually figure out what draws me to them. Oh, and you don’t need to look at my chart, but thank you for offering! I was just thinking out loud and wondering about aspects that lead to loneliness in a marriage.
I am just kidding about the attracted thing! We, Geminis, have a wild sense of humor 😀
Loneliness in marriage would be lack of Moons, I would think, K.
Also, Tori and Dean have a peculiar composite chart.
I will look at the Comp. We would not have houses, of course.