As I have more clients, I learn more about this topic. I wish this subject never existed. It is the deepest violation of a person. I think this is because sexual things touch us so deeply, in such a primal, wordless way. That is why God wanted sex to be in marriage, only. God was not trying to “take away our fun”. Everything God does is out of love for us , as the most wonderful, perfect parent would do. People who look at God as a meanie or an ignorant judgmental Christian lady who criticizes others, does not know the real God. God is love, pure love. Please share on the Comment section, if you would like to talk about this. Talking brings healing to everyone!