I know I am not the only one who asks herself this question. I was raised to be a Type A person, in all ways. If I could not be perfect, I was nothing. It was not OK to be flawed. God has given me some gifts, of late. One is a person to listen, with no judgement. Another is the discovery of “Right Brain Trauma Theory” which is explained in the simplest way in the book “Cure By Crying” by Thomas Stone. Also, God has give me Astrology and the Asteroids, to show me God has everything in control. No, I don’t have to be perfect and you don’t either.