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Asteroid Sado( 118230)

hands over mouthI discovered that someone in my life has Sado conjunct the Moon. This person has been sadistic. I was surprised but not surprised, if you know what I mean.I was relieved. One doubts oneself when one deals with a sadistic person.

The sadistic person is a master of Gaslighting.  Gaslighting is the deliberate attempt to convince someone that they cannot trust their own reality. It is a terrible thing.I have several articles on Gaslighting.  At any rate, I would love to hear from anyone who has Sado conjunct the ASC, Sun or Moon. Thanks so much, in advance!

25 thoughts on “Asteroid Sado( 118230)

  1. amiannTiffany

    I have sado sextile sun, moon, & dejanira. Sado is conjunct my Uranus, trine my north node, Eris, Reiki, Aesculpia, & aura.
    Sado opposes my Chiron. Sado is also squaring asteroids Tyche, Kida, Anteros
    I also have sado Conjuncting a couple asteroids.
    Moira which I think is related to fate & Union.
    Please give me your best interpretation.

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Tiffany dear. It would help me if you choose the top 3 asteroids you are interested in as it is hard for me to do ten or more at a time. That would be really appreciated. I will do a few now. The sextiles would make it so that you may feel sadistic but you could control it or channel it in positive ways. The opposition to Chiron may prod you to be sadistic when you are in pain.

  2. amiannZeal

    Hi Ami!

    May i ask, how does it play out in synastry? His Sado conjuncts my sun in 3 deg orb and square my moon in 1 deg orb.

    Many thanks in advance!:)

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Hi Zeal
      Well, I think it would play out as sadism. Many people mitigate things. I don’t because reality is the kindest thing to say to people. I think that he would be sadistic with you and it would be obvious AND hidden. I think you would see some of it but some of it, you would doubt yourself about. This really can mess with your mind. Please, tell me the story.

      1. amiannZeal

        One of the reasons why I love your site is because of your honest, straight to the point explanations.:) Many thanks!:)

        My friends see how he makes me suffer from manipulating me emotionally. Acts jealous and possessive but isn’t laying any cards on the table (we are not yet together). I feel he wants me to chase after him instead of the other way around. Worse, I think sometimes I like it (i have dejanira conjuct my AC and child asteroid).:(

        1. amiannamiann Post author

          Thank you, Zeal.
          You got the whole point of my site. I want it to be honest, direct and practical. I am both loved and hated for this 😀
          For you with Deja conj the ASC and Child asteroid, you must be very, very careful in relationships. You should have any synastry done by an Astrologer. You can put any synastry on my Forum and there is no charge!

  3. amiannLesley

    Hi Ami, My Sado is conjunct Mercury by a 2deg orb. The conjunction with my Sun is too far out (Thank God)! with a 6deg orb. to count. How would Mercury play out with Sado?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Do you feel like you really want to be verbally sadistic? I bet you never act on it with your Unaspected Moon but I bet you feel it a lot. Maybe, this is why you feel guilty? You know I understand guilt because we have the same mother 😀

      1. amiannLesley

        Yes, Ami I do feel that I want to be verbally sadistic. I actually felt that it would have something to do with speech. I never act upon it, though. My guilt supercedes everything. And you are right, we do have the same mother.

  4. amiannLon Spector

    Did you ever hear of a rock group named “The Motels?” They had two
    hit songs. One was, “Suddenly Last Summer” the other was “Only The
    I think they are a Venus in Pisces group. Could you listen to these songs
    and tell me what you think?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      I know “Only the Lonely” and it is a Venus in Pisces kind of feel. I agree, Lon dear. I am listening to Suddenly Last Summer, now. It is lovely. It reminds me of West Side Story “There’s a Place for Us”.

  5. amiannMelanie

    Hi Ami,
    (I wrote earlier about having Nessus conjunct the ASC, & Lucifer conjunct my Moon.)
    I found that I have Sado conjunct my Juno asteroid…

    Sado: 6 Capricorn 23’38”
    Juno: 5 Capricorn 52’38”

    (Let me know if this is too wide, both are in 3rd house. Both “trine” Pluto in Scorp in the 2nd)

    Sadistic wife? What do you think?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Hi Melanie!

      Well Sado conj Juno would be the same for many people born at the same time as you so is not as significant as the ASC and nessus and the Moon and Lucifer. However, all things in the chart do matter. You would have to see how fast Juno and sado moved to see HOW many people born near you had it. If they were slow moving, all your relationships would have it for BOTH people, so it would not really be an issue, too much, because both people would have the same vibe, here.

      How close is Nessus to your ASC and Lucifer to your Moon. Lucifer is pride, not evil. It is someone who will not humble himself to God.

  6. amiannmelissa

    hello. I am new to astrology. maybe you can help me with this?
    I have sun in aries sextile sado in gemini.
    I also have gemini in chiron in the 8th house
    What could this mean?

    1. amiannamiann Post author

      Welcome Melissa
      With a sextile in an asteroid, it would have to be a very small orb like one degree. If not, it would not count. If you have the sextile and it is close, I would say that you have sadistic urges but you can control them and use them in productive ways, so to speak, like reading crime novels or even writing them. Some people say surgeons need a certain amount of sadism to cut into people. So, sadism can be transmuted into higher things. This is what I mean.

      The 8th House Chiron is one of the harder ones. You may want to be ” more than human”. Your primal impulses may seem bad or repugnant to you. Is this true? xx

      1. amiannMelissa

        Phew! I do feel like I have an interest in crimes especially sadistic ones like serial killers and war crimes and stuff. I find it very interesting but repulsive. I could never hurt anyone like that but I do understand how a serial killer would feel misunderstood their whole life which leads to a lot of bad behavior.
        And YES my primal urges absolutely disgust me. I am not someone that sleeps around but my mind has vivid sexual scenarios with so many people I would never want to have anything to do with. It is an intrusion on my life. It is almost as if I have a window into the biggest pervert’s fantasy or I feel like I can read men’s minds and I can see what they want to do with me and a part of me wants them to just take me but I am sooooooo grossed out by the very idea because I am very selective about my partners.

        More than human…? Well I really don’t even feel like a human being most times. I am floating outside of myself a lot. Not sure if I am from this planet, lol.

        Sigh….I am not surprised that my Chiron in Gemini is difficult. I keep hearing that I have a challenging chart. I feel like most of my chart is. Aries sun, Scorpio rising-with pluto in the 1st house, moon in Libra in the 12th house and mc and Lilith in Leo. North node in Pisces and south node in Virgo. Mercury in Pisces, sun square Neptune and moon square Mars seem to be some of my most difficult aspects apparently.

        Thank you so much for your interpretation. I can’t wait to finish reading you blog, I love your point of view.

        1. amiannamiann Post author

          Thank you Melissa dear. You made my day! You can come post your chart in my Personal Readings Forum and ask any questions and we can discuss it, too! I would be delighted.

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