The NN in synastry is amazing. If a person has a planet or asteroid on your NN, they will bring the flavor of that planet or asteroid TO the relationship. It may not show up if it is not a committed long term relationship. However, if it is, it will show up. If it is a hard planet or asteroid, you will eat your fill of it until you want to burst.
I am very strong about the NN in synastry, for this reason. If I see a chart with a hard planet or asteroid conjunct someone’s NN, I tell them to be very careful of marrying the person. If a persons Saturn conjuncts your NN, they will bring restriction and discipline in to your life. You may feel like you are living with a strict father. If you can take this, so be it, but be aware that the relationship WILL bring the flavor of Saturn to it. If a persons Nessus conjuncts your NN, that person will bring the darkest parts of the human soul to you. Do you want that?
I will list some.
Dejanira conj NN—the person will be your victim.
Juno conj the NN–the person will bring you all the best traits of a loyal wife
Vesta conj the NN–the person will bring you devotion
Pallas conj the NN–the person will bring you wisdom
Uranus conj the NN–the relationship will have a lot of ups and downs in strange ways. There may be a lot of make-ups and break ups
Pluto conj the NN— there will be all kinds of primal passion. This will define the relationship, for better or worse. Think of Liz and Dick. Your relationship will be very very passionate.
Moon conj the NN–the person will bring you his heart. This would be wonderful. It would be a child like kind of bond.
Sun conj NN- the person would bring confidence to you
Jupiter con the NN- the person will bring optimism to you.
Chiron conj the NN–the person will bring you pain
Mars onj the NN–the person will bring you drive
Venus conj the NN–the person will be a thing of beauty to you. Your relationship will have a sense of beauty such as the feeling of a musical.
Neptune conj the NN—this may bring great sorrow as you may have had ideals that were not met leading to great sorrow. I have heard this could lead to bad abuse or worse. This is a theory which someone I know is studying.
Nessus conj the NN–the person will bring you abuse
Pholus conj he NN–the person will bring all sorts of explosive outbursts
Child conj the NN–the person will bring his inner child to you and that childlike sense will pervade the relationship. There will be a child to child kind of wonderful feeling between you.
Eros conj the NN–the relationship will be very erotic
Lilith conj the NN–the person will bring his raw sexuality to the relationship. Raw sexuality will be a theme of the relationship.
Medusa conj the NN- the person will have been betrayed by woman but hate men. This theme will be brought by the person to the relationship. This theme will define the relationship, too
Sedna conj NN–the person will bring a severe betrayal by men to the relationship. This theme will define the relationship
Sappho conj the NN–the person will bring eroticism of a literary bent. The music “Bolero” by Ravel would be the feeling of your relationship
Apollo conj the NN–The NN person would adore the Apollo person. The NN person would have a kind of awe for the Apollo person
Proserpina conj the NN—The Proserpina Person would bring some kind of rite of passage from innocence into some form of corruption to the NN person. How this may play out. The Proserpina person may corrupt the innocence of the NN person, in some way.
Orchus conj the NN–The Orchus person would make the relationship about a journey of overcoming. There may be issues of illness, poverty etc. The relationship may be one of overcoming, but they would do so.
I know a guy who has his Psyche and Saturn in scorpio conjunct my North Node.
and i have my Mars and Psyche in Gemini conjunct his North Node.
How will this play out is it good or bad?
This is a great article. I am trying to understand NN contacts in synastry.
Hi Michelle
Thank you for your sweet words. Why don’t you register for my Forum and start a thread on NN in synastry. I really am fascinated with it, too 😀
and what if a persons nessus conjuct vesta on someones NN? I have that aspect to someone and wonder about the potesial for this??
The nessus vesta conjuct is also oppsite this persons Amor (in his SN)..
I don’t know so much about Psyche yet…
Psyche is soul. Think of your deepest soul mate relationship with a man or a woman. That is Psyche. If a person had his Nessus on my NN, I would not marry him or make any long term commitment. The NN is as much of a look into the future, as anything. Your relationship will be defined by abuse imho. If Nessus conjuncts Vesat, Nessus would be used for good, though, such as helping victims of abuse. If the conjunction is opposite Amor, the person may struggle with his own love nature, versus his abuse nature( and we all have one). That would be my take on it.
I have my saturn and descendant conjunct his north node, sun and mercury. I also have my ascendant, NN conjunct his moon… And our sun, moon and venus trine/sextiles all over the place… Can the NN/Saturn energies be overcome?
How do you mean “overcome”
I mean can that energy be managed or is it always a deal breaker?
Well, you have to think about that energy and if it is a deal breaker for YOU. Saturn energy is like a stern parent. Some people are OK with it and some are not. Saturn is not a mean parent but he plays by the rules and is all about goals, responsibility and maturity. The charts will, always, reveal what is there. That won’t change. If a person has God, that person can adapt to most situations. However, the chart will play out, as indicated. The person’s adaptation would be the variable that could change <3
To be very honest, I would not want a synastry with that much Saturn. I would feel very oppressed and as if I was in prison. Many people would, but not everyone, I don’t think.
What if someone Saturn trined the other person’s sun, ascendant and Saturn? Would tat makes aspects between them easier?
YES Saturn in good aspect is a kind of strength brought to the other person like the strength of a big, strong oak tree!
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hey. i have these synastry aspect with my guy friend. we both like each other. does these aspects show a positive relationship?
North Node conjunction Sun ( both our northnode conjuncts each other’s sun)
North Node trine Moon
North Node conjunction Venus
North Node trine Jupiter
North Node conjunction Lilith
North Node conjunction Eros
North Node conjunction Juno
Very, very nice!
How close are they, orb wise?
North Node conjunction Sun ( 4.73)
North Node trine Moon ( 4.48)
North Node conjunction Venus (2.23)
North Node trine Jupiter ( 6.32 )
North Node conjunction Lilith (5.32)
North Node sextile Ceres ( 5.05)
North Node conjunction Juno (2.75)
North Node conjunction Eros (2.43)
That sounds lovely!
howver his saturn conjuncts my sun , mercury and neptune. that’s bad right?
I would not want that, myself.
i understand. but how is it bad?
Saturn can be the stern father who tells you to eat your veggies before you eat your dessert. It can make you feel too criticized. I can feel too parental. A little Saturn is wonderful and a glue. too much feels like a drag, but each person is different in how much Saturn suits them. I would not want a person’s Saturn that intense on my personal planets, but that would be my opinion <3
I have a question for you Amiann, with regard for NN. I have an exact NN degree conjunction with someone who I’m with right now. What does this mean for us? I tried looking all over the Internet for answers based on this question but I could never find an answer. Can you help me based on this regard?
Thank you!
I think that would be a soul mate sign. Are you born really close in time? If so, it may just be that. If not, it would be a super compatibility aspect imo
No, we’re born years apart. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a lot of people with that kind I conjunction before.. Is it rare?
I would say it is a true soul mate aspect!
Wow, thank you! I appreciate you getting back to me. I had a feeling that was the case, but couldn’t find any kind of source on the web for this kind of info.
Thanks again! Will definitely be checking into your website every now and then. 🙂
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Oops! Forgot to say an exact NN conjunction degree with my partner’s NN. Sorry about that! Lol
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Hi, with the Nessus conj the NN
Nessus would be the abuser . With obsession, both will be obsessed. Medusa conj the SN would have been abuse at the hands of a woman in his life such that he was “comfortable” with that pattern. You are very welcome 🙂
Hello…could you tell me about NN opposing ascendant at 0 degree, NN opposing Mid Heaven at 1 degree? I see alot about conjunctions but nothing about oppositions. This short relationship had a very profound effect on me and was wondering if this had any significance? We had Venus mars contacts and sun, mercury,moon, and mars contacts all less than 3 degrees. Any info would be greatly appreciated. I am an astrology newbie, never used it before for any reason, but have always found it to be fascinating. Thank you!!!
Thank you for commenting, Caren. Tell me which person was which. I assume this is synastry. You can come and post your charts in my Forum too, if you want. Go to the front of the website and you will see Ami’s Soul to Soul Astrology Forum.
His NN to my ascendant and his NN to my MC. Yes, sorry this is synastry.
His NN opposing your ASC may be such that his purposes and goals in life may go against your basic walk through life.There may be a pull between this.Let me make it practical. If he ha sthe goal of being an artist. You may have the goal of making money and living in a big house. You may feel sort of at cross purposes. NN opposing the MC would be his goals being at cross purposes with your career.
Thank you so much for your reply. I also read that the North node opposing ascendant would also mean south node conjunct the ascendant which is supposed to be our comfort zone. So his libra SN is conjunct my libra ascendant? I guess than it would have the same meaning except we would not be at a crossroads?? I also read the south node or NN to AS is a soulmate possibity?? but I only read about conjunctions not oppositions. But, thank you so much!!!!
I’m currently in a relationship with someone whose Saturn AND Nessus conjuncts my North Node, and I’m finding this really perplexing because I sincerely consider this the best relationship I’ve ever been in. We’ve been together for almost 3 years, and he’s the first man I’ve lived with. He’s also the first man I feel a truly solid, committed, and loving union with. He’s accepting of me, extremely caring, and our relationship is very fun-loving and inspiring. So, you can see why his Saturn/Nessus conjunct my NN is so confusing! The only way I see this playing out is that he does seem very concerned with my well-being; he’ll say things like, “careful, don’t slip!” if we’re walking somewhere wet, or “drive safely!” things like that, but I never feel overwhelmed or criticized, just cared about. I’ve certainly been with men MUCH more critical/abusive than that. Any further thoughts on this aspect? Thanks!
Yes, Friend. Please, do not get married fast. Watch and wait it out. I am here if you want to post your charts and ask questions.Nessus relationships start off as heaven but end as hell. Will this happen to you? I don’t know but I would be aware because awareness is always good. xx
“Neptune conj the NN
Oh dear
I can’t tell you to run away. Maybe, you should have a professional reading with someone so they can look at the entire chart. I have not seen this aspect in real life or my charts. I was told this to be true by a master Astrologer, so passed it on but do not know more than that, Friend.
My Dejanira is almost exactly conjunct to the NN of a guy I’m really crushing on..there’s nothing between us, or anything, but I was kind of hoping..now you’ve totally bummed me out with this post.
Do you actually know of abusive relationships that had the Dejanira-NN connections? I’d be curious to know.
I also have my Juno and South Node conjunct his Venus, my Moon, Mars, Jupiter trine his Sun, his Sun in my 1st house, his Moon trine my Asc,sextile my Sun, his Venus in the same sign as my Ascendant, my Psyche conjunct his Eros, his Mars conjunct my Sun/Moon midpoint, his Juno opposite my Sun and conjunct my Ascendant, his Vertex opposite my Saturn, my Vertex opposite his Venus.
Have I SEEN deja conj the NN in a relationship? No, but I have seen enough other asteroids play out to speculate. I am sorry, my Friend. That is one person’s opinion, too. Others differ with me.