Venus in Gemini is the girl men love to hate. She is akin to Mars in Scorpio, in a male. Both are legendary placements to those in the Astrological know. Venus in Gemini is delightful.She does not attract by force, as does Venus in Aries. She does not attract with sultriness, as does Venus in Scorpio. She attracts by being so much fun that people follow her. Some planets become enchanted in certain signs. Such is the case with Venus in Gemini. She becomes a fey. She dances from flower to flower, leaving the sense that one, really, did see a fairy.
Venus in Gemini has a terrible reputation for “love them and leave them”. I suppose I must cop the guilty plea on this. However, she does not leave lovers planning revenge, as does Venus in Scorpio. If she leaves, it is because she got bored. She will not slash your tires on the way out, as a Venus in Scorpio. She will find a man who is a little wittier. She loves words, as Venus in Scorpio likes black silk. Charm her with words. Sexually, she wants to hear you talk. Your moves come second.
Her worst quality is, also, her best. She gets bored easily. This keeps her a stimulating companion, but may send her packing when you get boring. Boring to her, is the mundane routine of life. If you see a woman’s Venus in Gemini, check her moon and Ascendant. If she has a loyal moon, like Cancer, Leo or Taurus, you will be alright. If she has a Fixed sign Ascendant, like Scorpio or Leo, you will be alright. If she does not have compensating factors for stability, I would say, “Run for the hills”. Don’t look back. Gemini likes nothing more than a good chase.
“I suppose I must cop the guilty plea on this.” Heheh, Ami ^_^
LOL
How would it go between a Taurus sun, Gemini venus, Cancer mars, Leo moon… and the man is a Pisces sun, Aries venus, Gemini mars, Scorpio moon! would it work out??
Grrr Ned
Come and post the chart on my Forum. That is what I have it for 😀
Seriously, I would need to look at the actual charts because there are so very, very many layers to any chart.
jodi arias has her moon AND venus in gemini..what does that mean??
Moon in Gemini is a hard position because the person is usually very high strung. Venus is a good placement.
You can come and post charts on my Forum. There is no charge.
my ex is gemini venus. LOVES to talk, to flirt. “language as lubricant” comes to mind. with my scorpio mars we were oftentimes caught betwixt and between. she also has some issues related to being completely forthright…and was made very uncomfortable, knowing i could always tell. but her scorpio ascendant is pretty close to my mars and my venus in libra can be pretty accomodating, sometimes too much so.
she still believes i don’t know the things that i do.
love and learn.
Your Achilles heel was your Venus in Libra lol
How does it feel to have that go getter Mars and that refined Venus?
well, saturn in cap sextiles that mars and squares my mercury/venus so there is a kind of “braking” effect in the dynamics. i’ve decided it’s likely for the best with mars in the 5th, adds some needed discipline and maybe a wiser voice when the impulse is to…well, you know what the impulse is. it IS a refined venus, though and, added to a virgo moon, i don’t like what i feel to be crass or vulgar, though i’m no prude by any means. but an element of class goes a long way with me. the ex is also mars (and sun) aries, so with that added to the “light” venus in gemini, things – like sex, for example – could be a little quick and sometimes too detached for my need for depth and intimacy. and i’m sure my silences and “heaviness” were a bit too much for her tastes too, sometimes.
How do you know what your moon and ascendant are??? I am a Venus in Gemini born June 15th…but i have no idea how to look up what your moon and ascendant are??? Please help 🙂
Hi Sina. Go to Astro.com and put in your birth info. You will get a chart wheel. There is no charge. If you save it to your computer, you can come and put it up and ask em questions.
Thank You So Much Amiann 🙂
You are very welcome, Friend.
Hey sorry to bother you Amiann but what does it mean if my ascendant is Sagittarius?
It is no bother, Sina. When one meets you, you are friendly and full of adventure and life.
and your moon sign is Capricorn?
You have head over heart.
Thank you So Much !!! 🙂 Amiann
You are so very welcome, SIna. I see that you registered in my Forum. Come and put up your chart, Friend!
haha 🙂 yes i did I will put my chart up asap
I have Venus in Gemini and I find myself talking to four to five different guys while I’m texting. I never thought of this as an issue until my sister was telling her friend that I was a player. 🙁
But it’s usually nothing romantic with the guys. Just fun flirting and teasing. I just CANNOT stand to be bored. It feels worse than depression or anger.
Oh, and I have Libra ascendant with a Libra moon. Which I suppose would make me really fickle since my Venus is trine my moon and ascendant. I accidentally show up late for work at times and completely forget an entire conversation that I am having with someone. It’s incredibly hard for me to focus on one thing at a time since I’m usually multitasking like a mad woman.
I also run away from people when they get too intense because I get overwhelmed with those type of feelings. It’s not me being a jerk. I just think people should handle their own feelings like I do. I just typed a lot of stuff, sorry. I didn’t realize I just did that. Lol.
Cya
Aly xo
Welcome Aly! Your post was great. It was not too long at all! I am a Libra ASC, Sun Merc and venus in Gemini with a cancer Moon. It is so weird but I never get bored. I have been bored less than 10 times in my life. I think my 9th House stellium is always studying something so I am not bored. I am an earth void and very high string though.
Cancer sun, Leo Moon, Virgo Asc., Mars in Taurus- Venus in Gemini female.
These are my honest thoughts on the controversial Venus in Gemini aspect:
1-I’m loyal to the bone by nature, very sensual and loving, yet life threw me in a context where I had painful, failed relationships that seemed to mirror each other in the way they ended and WHY they ended. I was the one who left when those people who claimed they loved me didn’t give me the affection I was offering them. And NO, those were not jilted lovers- I simply could not communicate with them, and I never felt loved the way I loved them. After each breakup I got physically sick for a long time- it hurt in anything but a superficial way. Venus in Gemini doesn’t equal surface or frolicking merrily and irresponsibly; au contraire, it can be loyal, provided that there is a strong mental connection. Leaving love aside, I think we leave when we feel misunderstood, when the other one ‘doesn’t get us”. That is my case, anyways.
I’d also like to explain that ‘lightness’ associated with Venus in Gemini. I’m actually sensitive and I withdraw at any direct, forward hint, or when something becomes too obvious or vulgar. That’s why we are perceived as inconstant or hard to pinpoint, but if someone knows the art of flirting intelligently and with sensitivity, we can be hooked for life. Yes, I cheated. Does that make me a cheater by nature? Not at all. If any of those people would have acted normally, I would have never left. I would have been with just one man from the beginning to the end. Oh, one more thing. I hate it when men notice me for my physical attributes. I cringe. I stop feeling at ease completely. I want to be loved for who I am not for how I look. I understand physical attraction-that’s beside the point- but if someone tries to win my trust by telling me that his temples were throbbing with lust the moment he saw me, I’m sure the end is near. Or that there is no beginning at all so to speak.
I’m aware that my Mars in Taurus and Cancer sun do influence the Gemini Venus, but still…I can be as flirty as everyone else who posted here, but when people say they can’t stand being bored I agree only to the extent that the conversation has to be interesting. It can be about anything deep or serious; it doesn’t mean that we’re little cretins who thrive on superficial contacts only to get bored easily and consequently look for change constantly. I get turned on by substance.
best wishes to all my Venus Gemini sufferers:)*
Welcome Maya. I will come back and study your post!
Hi,
I am interested in a girl who has gemini in venus. The following are her planets:
Sun Leo Ascendant Libra
Moon Capricorn II Scorpio
Mercury Leo III Sagittarius
Venus Gemini IV Capricorn
Mars Leo V Aquarius
Jupiter Aquarius VI Pisces
Saturn Scorpio VII Aries
Uranus Sagittarius VIII Taurus
Neptune Capricorn IX Gemini
Pluto Scorpio Midheaven Cancer
Lilith Taurus XI Leo
Asc node Taurus XII Virgo
I would lile to know about the stability of this girl since I am looking for commitment.
Thanks.
Welcome, P. You can come put her natal chart on my Forum and ask the question and I will be delighted to take a look. This list does not show me the aspects so I cannot answer for you, my Friend!